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Old 11-05-2020, 12:40 PM
 
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Those stories about natural children being conceived after adoption? They really DO happen.
Maybe so, but they don't happen because of an adoption, they happen because they happen.
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Old 11-09-2020, 08:26 PM
 
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The younger the woman is the better your odds of IVF working so I would go for that and not waste time on other methods that are not working if you are serious about having another baby. Also for the people who recommend adoption it is not cheap and I would see that as a option if all else failed. Good luck and hope you get that baby.
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Old 11-16-2020, 12:21 PM
 
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I was an infertility patient for over 2 years for my daughter. I went through another 2 years for my sons.

Went to Pergonal, Clomid didn't work.

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Old 11-17-2020, 12:15 AM
 
Location: Southwest Washington State
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My adult child and spouse had trouble conceiving after first child. They thought they were too old to try any longer. They stopped trying, assuming they dud not need BC. Voila! Pregnancy. My granddaughter is a special gift.
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Old 11-17-2020, 08:27 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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It took a while for me to get pregnant with my first. I blamed it on being on birth control pills for so long. Spent so many years making sure I didn't get pregnant and now I was dealing with the opposite problem. Sex became a chore, instead of the enjoyment it used to be. I remember tracking my cycle and temperature and one day turning to my husband and saying "today's the day, let's get this over with". It was then I realized that I was putting too much pressure on myself. Every month when I got my period I would get depressed for days.

Went to my doctor who said I had a tipped uterus. He did something, don't remember what, and the next month I was pregnant. Had no trouble conceiving our second child. They are both adults now.
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Old 11-17-2020, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Sandy Eggo's North County
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He's "pissing?"

Well, I think I see your problem. You're doing it wrong!

LOL, just trying to be light-hearted.

Adopt. There's lots of kids that need a home.
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Old 11-19-2020, 09:30 AM
 
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He's "pissing?"

Well, I think I see your problem. You're doing it wrong!

LOL, just trying to be light-hearted.

Adopt. There's lots of kids that need a home.
Seems like adoption is out the window these days because people can freeze eggs and get IVF.

Are there really that many unwanted children out there these days? Not to be naive but it seems like when it comes to fertility everything is very planned. You can be on the pill so you don't conceive, even the poorest of people can get access to the pill. Then you can be 45 and decide to get pregnant through IVF or frozen whatever. Anyways, if there are that many unwanted children then that is sad. It just seems like people are having less kids these days.
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Old 11-19-2020, 03:55 PM
 
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Seems like adoption is out the window these days because people can freeze eggs and get IVF.

Are there really that many unwanted children out there these days? Not to be naive but it seems like when it comes to fertility everything is very planned. You can be on the pill so you don't conceive, even the poorest of people can get access to the pill. Then you can be 45 and decide to get pregnant through IVF or frozen whatever. Anyways, if there are that many unwanted children then that is sad. It just seems like people are having less kids these days.
Adoption Statistics

https://2date4love.com/adoption-statistics/

Around 135,000 children are adopted every year in the United States.
In the United States, there are around 1.5 million children who have been adopted.
In 2018, there were 4,058 adoptions in the United States.
There are around 437,000 children in the United States who are in foster care on any given day.
There are around 69,000 children and teenagers in foster care in the United States who don’t live in a family environment, say foster care adoption statistics.
Of the children who exited foster care in 2018, 25% were taken in by a family that went through the adoption process.
Since 2005, the number of children being adopted from other countries has decreased by 72%.
In 2015, there were 12,000 international adoptions, with 5,500 children being adopted in the United States.
There are around 2 million LGBT people in the United States who want to adopt.
Same-sex married couples can adopt children in every state in America.

Note that there are plenty of older children who could be adopted.
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Old 11-19-2020, 07:38 PM
 
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Man, we've done everything!
Our story is very similar to yours.

The hardest part has been when friends of my wife conceive. Each one of those has been hard for her, with many tears shed.
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Old 11-20-2020, 03:34 AM
 
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Our story is very similar to yours.

The hardest part has been when friends of my wife conceive. Each one of those has been hard for her, with many tears shed.
I can only imagine how she felt "set apart" from in that gathering of friends.
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