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Old 03-24-2021, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Shawnee-on-Delaware, PA
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... her mother liked the photo....
I see nothing wrong with it. I mean, if her mother likes the photo who am I to say I don't, especially since the OP neglected to post it.
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Old 03-24-2021, 10:29 AM
 
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Boys can't get pregnant. Although, Teen boys need to be careful as well especially, if they're a bit older, like a 18yr. with a 17yr. old... I've heard stories of teen girls making up stories about whatever boyfriend they were with of rape or assault if pregnancy or a break-up happens. Then it can wreck their future and reputation.
So boys don't bear any responsibility when a girl gets pregnant? Are these girls getting themselves pregnant? And if a girl does find themselves pregnant, through apparently no fault of any boy, she is the only one affected for the rest of their life? A boy bears no responsibility to care for the resulting child?
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Old 03-24-2021, 10:35 AM
 
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So boys don't bear any responsibility when a girl gets pregnant? Are these girls getting themselves pregnant? And if a girl does find themselves pregnant, through apparently no fault of any boy, she is the only one affected for the rest of their life? A boy bears no responsibility to care for the resulting child?
Sadly some people actually feel this way.
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Old 03-24-2021, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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Maybe poor taste but it might be a thing. I saw a photo posted by the sister of an old friend. She was posing with her three daughters, late teens im guessing, and her and one daughter had their hand cupped on on of the daughters boobs. They were all laughing. I have seen the same in other peoples photos.

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I have never seen that in a photograph.

As a mother, I can not imagine cupping my hand over my childs/teens breast, especially in a photograph. I wonder if she would still think that it was as "funny" to have a photograph of her or her husband or a sibling cupping their hand over their teenage son's genitals?

Would the teenage son and his friends think that it was funny? I wonder.
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Old 03-24-2021, 12:02 PM
 
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I have never seen that in a photograph.

As a mother, I can not imagine cupping my hand over my childs/teens breast, especially in a photograph. I wonder if she would still think that it was as "funny" to have a photograph of her or her husband or a sibling cupping their hand over their teenage son's genitals?

Would the teenage son and his friends think that it was funny? I wonder.
I've seen a few photos like that from different people. I think its just a thing. There was a bit of controversy it seems when Candance Cameron's husband did a boob grab photo.

My friend doesn't have sons so IDK, probably. She thinks lots of things are funny. She is a fun loving person.
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Old 03-24-2021, 01:50 PM
 
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Maybe poor taste but it might be a thing. I saw a photo posted by the sister of an old friend. She was posing with her three daughters, late teens im guessing, and her and one daughter had their hand cupped on on of the daughters boobs. They were all laughing. I have seen the same in other peoples photos.

I really dont see how that causes pregnancy.

And yes things have changed. Most high school kids, or at least many, are having sex. Abstinence is not the answer, knowledge is.
Average age for first sex is 15.6 years so yes, the majority of HS kids are having sex, typically in the context of a relationship. My older daughter started as a senior and my younger the summer between 10th and 11th grade. I was not upset or scandalized by this at all.
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Old 03-24-2021, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Dessert
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So? I’m sure everyone does
No, not everyone does, only gossips.
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Old 03-25-2021, 05:56 AM
 
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Lets see the OnlyFans
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Old 03-25-2021, 06:18 AM
 
Location: Mishawaka, Indiana
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Mind your own business? You don't remember what it was like to be a teenager apparently.
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Old 03-25-2021, 08:13 AM
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Mind your own business? You don't remember what it was like to be a teenager apparently.
I definitely wasn't having sex. lol Never even had a boyfriend during high school. lol I was a bookworm and grew up going to Church.
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