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Old 07-19-2021, 02:50 PM
 
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I would say
Buy them chocolate all the time
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Old 07-19-2021, 04:37 PM
 
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Top five:
1: hit or spank.
2: treat as labor workers.
3: clothes appropriate to age.
4: forcing cult religions.
5: foul language .
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Old 07-19-2021, 07:45 PM
 
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Run the household.
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Old 07-19-2021, 09:59 PM
 
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Discipline. Its my husbands kids, not mine. I chose not to have kids bc i dont want to discipline. I leave it to him
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Old 07-20-2021, 09:51 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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Give the kids everything they ask for. That's really bad for them and turns them into self-entitled monsters..
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Old 07-20-2021, 10:56 AM
 
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Social media our kids.

As in, we don't post pictures of their faces, milestones, instagrammy birthday-party-pictures, or stage photos for all our facebook friends or twitter followers.

We share our photos with their grandparents and that's it. Our kids are not a rung on the social media ladder to prove to others and ourselves how great, beautiful, and organically meaningful our lives are.

They already are. No need to crow about it.

Pigeonhole Them

Our kids surf. They are not just surfers. Our kids do that aerial silks thing, go on nature hikes, and take marine biology courses, but they are not just Patagonia granola nature Gaia children. Our kids play with toy guns, shoot fireworks, ride dirtbikes, love everything patriotic and American, and go to monster truck rallys and demolition derbys, but they are not just American Country. We take our kids overseas to spend summers with their cousins, they speak fluent Mandarin, and eat foods that would freak their peers out, follow some of the traditions and and like the country of half their ancestry but they are not just YYYY-Americans.
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Old 07-20-2021, 05:30 PM
 
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Giving an allowance. Once my daughter was of age she started babysitting and subsequently had summer jobs to earn spending money
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Old 07-20-2021, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Dessert
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Have children.
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Old 07-21-2021, 06:41 AM
 
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talk baby talk.
pay money for good grades.
hit them.
buy them cars.
buy them expensive clothing
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Old 07-21-2021, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Vermont
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Originally Posted by Nov3 View Post
Top five:
1: hit or spank.
2: treat as labor workers.
3: clothes appropriate to age.
4: forcing cult religions.
5: foul language .
Just curious.....you would not 'impose' age appropriate clothing on a child? (if impose is the word). So you mean you would let the child wear whatever they like?
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