I need tantrum advice (baby, pills, toys, parents)

[mskim2]

I am sorry of my English. Iread better than write. I am in Korea. This is my first time. I was too poor and my.parents raised my childrens. I have problems with my husband. My son of 25 is like a baby from an injury and he came home to me after lunar and I am scared I do not know what to do. He started to have tantrums the previous month. Sometimes he is upset or angry, sometimes he starts being bad for no reason. He will begin moving around on the floor or pushing the floor pushing into me and crying and screaming. Sometimes he will kick and push into me. He is not strong but he may get hurt. I was tried to count and I tell him no but he will continue to be bad. I readjusted him a few times but the first hit does not help and the second hit makes him cry until he will fall asleep but yesterday it made him scream louder and I was not wanting to hurt him. I tried to take toys away and I try many times to tell him to calm down and he does not understand. Please help if any is available. -

[parentologist]

Your 25 year old son has a brain injury, and is having behavioral problems. He is now living at home with you. You cannot manage his behavior.

You need professional help in Korea. You probably need to use medication prescribed by a doctor to help to control him, so you can continue to keep him at home. A specialist in behavioral management for brain-injured people might be able to help you, too. I am sure that both of these are available in Korea (I assume you are in South Korea). Otherwise, you may need to put him in a residential treatment center for brain-injured adults, because he is becoming dangerous to you. Hitting him is NOT the answer.

[purehuman]

my sister worked in a facility for brain injured adults...they would give these people THC pills. It would calm them down, increase their hunger, and stop the drooling.