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Old 02-26-2022, 05:49 PM
 
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Reread the post.

Yes, I am judgmental and I know weird when I see it. Happy now?
But you didn't see it, and you make stuff up. Happy now?

 
Old 02-26-2022, 05:50 PM
 
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What he described above about the mom and son cuddling and leading to awkward behavior in one's 20's is not the same as the big brother/sister program.

No one is an authority on what is normal. I think that is why the question is being asked.

I was out to eat the other night with a big group of parents and kids and the whole night one little girl who is 6 was hanging all over her mom and her mom was getting annoyed. She kept giving her things to play with but she kept coming back to mom. None of the other kids were doing this, they were playing together. Kid kept trying to sit on mom's lap at a crowded table with drinks and food. The mom has told me that the daughter is constantly following her everywhere even at home and I was thinking, hmm 6 is starting to get a little old for that. Im not saying it's abnormal and i'm sure it will stop...but this kid the OP is talking about is 15 and is still coming to basically sit on mom's lap/cuddle when there are other people around.

I recall having a cousin who would basically sit on our aunt's lap (not his mom) and she would rub his head when he was 15ish or so. He did have some issues at birth (seizure) which led to him having some issues for a long time...i think people felt sympathetic for him because his mom was hard on him so they babied him. Perhaps the 15 yr old is going through tough times or has in the past and mom is babying him

I have heard of mom's breastfeeding kids until 6 or 7 mainly because the kid refuses to stop. Thoughts on that?
It's different by different cultures. Right and wrong are not black and white.
 
Old 02-26-2022, 05:55 PM
 
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People are allowed to be close minded and not open to certain situations. A lot of people draw the line at things like parent/child affection into the teen years particularly when it’s a mom/son daughter/father type thing
 
Old 02-26-2022, 05:58 PM
 
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People are allowed to be close minded and not open to certain situations. A lot of people draw the line at things like parent/child affection into the teen years particularly when it’s a mom/son daughter/father type thing
Well then just don't do it and leave your opinion about what others do to yourself.
 
Old 02-26-2022, 06:02 PM
 
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Why?
 
Old 02-26-2022, 06:03 PM
 
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Why?
Because this whole thread was unnecessary, and not really your business.
 
Old 02-26-2022, 06:05 PM
 
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What were you watching on TV? The scene in Game of Thrones where Robin suckles on his mom?

Hint: it's weird
 
Old 02-26-2022, 06:07 PM
 
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Because this whole thread was unnecessary, and not really your business.
That’s funny
 
Old 02-26-2022, 06:16 PM
 
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Weird is a relative term. It may be weird to you, but weird doesn't mean wrong, keep in mind.
 
Old 02-26-2022, 06:31 PM
 
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It’s interesting that you want someone to be open minded after using the word in a name calling instance you used a few posts back
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