I thought this was a real disgusting article about not having children (legal, fertile)

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by otterhere

Yes; mom is usually in bed with the kids and dad's on the couch. Hence no need for a lock on the marital door!

Do you people only have sex in bed and only at night?

[otterhere]

Originally Posted by zentropa

Do you people only have sex in bed and only at night?

No, but we also don't have children!

[westminster88]

Originally Posted by otterhere

Yes; mom is usually in bed with the kids and dad's on the couch. Hence no need for a lock on the marital door!

You need to get out more LOL, nobody in my universe lives like this.

To each their own, I guess.

[otterhere]

Originally Posted by westminster88

You need to get out more LOL, nobody in my universe lives like this.

To each their own, I guess.

You don't know parents who co-sleep? Funny; I know a lot of them, and I'm not even a (fellow) parent...

[westminster88]

Originally Posted by otterhere

You don't know parents who co-sleep? Funny; I know a lot of them, and I'm not even a (fellow) parent...

Not past the age of a year max (for the kid), no.

[otterhere]

Originally Posted by westminster88

Not past the age of a year max (for the kid), no.

Do you know many parents? I don't know ANY who cut it off at exactly one year of age, LOL.

[zentropa]

Parent sex can be extremely hot because you have to take it when and where you can get it. So you gotta be ready. Otter...you are lacking not just experience but imagination.

[rodentraiser]

Originally Posted by Marble cake

This article is so “me me” centered.

LOL Exactly what I say when it comes to parents wanting kids. These are some of the many reasons I was told I must have a baby:

I need someone to take care of me when I'm old.

I need to pass my genes on.

I need to pass my name on.

I need to fulfill myself.

I'm supposed to want a baby.

And so on and so forth. Not much "me" there at all, is there?

I always thought that if people wanted a baby, they should want it to make it feel happy it was born. In other words, have the baby for the baby's sake, not for any personal reason.

Originally Posted by westminster88

Game, set, match.

Some people just aren't secure enough in their own convictions unless they think others are jealous.

Well, you're the one who did the name calling, not me.

[reneeh63]

Originally Posted by newtovenice

When we were kids we were literally taught that. It still holds true. That's the base reason people choose not to have kids. It all goes back to that. Well, aside from those who cannot have children. Flame away. But it's true.

Yes...where's the flamethrower emoji when you need it?

That's how you get a bunch of really bad parents, but yeah, they deserve the blame if they fell for that bunk and had kids when they didn't really want them. Flame on that.

[reneeh63]

Originally Posted by TheOldPuss

I'm not sure, but I know that these days, co-sleeping is also a thing; hence, lack-a-nooky for the parents.

...and whose fault is that?