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Originally Posted by malamute
I suspect he has lost total respect for the mother and she might not have helped the situation by bringing a live-in lover into the home. Mom's shacked up with some guy that isn't the father, the boy is no longer the "man of the house" which he may have been and this is a crucial age for boys and how they view their mothers.
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You clearly didn't read the OP's posts. Her mother didn't bring in a live-in lover, and the boy was never the man of the house. She's been living in her fiancee's house for the past 4 years and they were together prior to that. In other words, her son has lived with his mother's fiancee in his life since the onset of puberty.
Also, the OPs says this is a -recent- change in behavior, and the description of his friends is pretty telling. My concern would be, where are the parents of his friends during all of this? WHO are the parents of his friends?
My first instinct, would be to find out what kind of atmosphere these other kids are being raised in, their home life, their situations. There might be a whole lot to learn by checking that out.