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Old 06-11-2014, 08:56 AM
 
Location: Over yonder a piece
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My daughter will be starting middle school next year, and so comes in the dreaded "fingertip" rule for her clothing. In elementary school they didn't care, and so she wore a lot of skorts and shorts that are made for girls (read: well above the knee).

Last night I went shopping for her and had to buy several pairs of shorts from the boys' section because the girls' section had NO knee-length shorts that my daughter would be able to wear to school in the fall.

How on earth are girls supposed to follow the dress code when clothing manufacturers refuse to make school-acceptable clothing????

Not only that, but I noticed the price for the girl short-shorts was twice the price of the boy Bermuda shorts. Half the fabric, twice the cost. Ridiculous.
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Old 06-11-2014, 09:16 AM
 
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Wait until closer to school, there are plenty of longer shorts. The entire thing is ridiculous.
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Old 06-11-2014, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Hillsborough
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I *just* read this blog post on the same topic.

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Old 06-11-2014, 09:26 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Not only that, but I noticed the price for the girl short-shorts was twice the price of the boy Bermuda shorts. Half the fabric, twice the cost. Ridiculous.
Same reason dry cleaners charge more to clean "women's" garments that are basically the same as "men's" garments, like shirts or blazers. We let them.

Do you know any parents who have been through this already? You can get recommendations of stores that sell those items.

Once you find something in her size that works, go online and order several in different colors etc.
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Old 06-11-2014, 09:26 AM
 
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Land's End has several styles to choose from.
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Old 06-11-2014, 09:36 AM
 
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there is a good 5-6 inches between the bottom of my fingertip and the top of my knee. maybe you don't need to be looking for such long shorts.
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Old 06-11-2014, 09:42 AM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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We have the same rule but nobody pays any attention to it and nobody is sent home either. In the winter I see high schoolers waiting for the bus in what I would call ultra short gym shorts and winter jackets. I wonder if parents have just given up by then.

2nd the Lands End. We order all the girls clothes from them. You can return no questions asked and the quality is usually good. Read the comments and reviews to get good ideas of fit and possible problems.
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Old 06-11-2014, 10:02 AM
 
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I don't know anyone that specifically has dealt with this, but my daughter said when she took the middle school tour a few weeks ago a couple of the students leading the tour did mention that there is a dress code in place that includes the fingertip rule.

My daughter has very long arms - her fingertips pretty much are at the top of her knee. In her case, even sport shorts (i.e., for soccer players) are too short.

I'll look into Land's End for sure.
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Old 06-11-2014, 10:05 AM
 
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What about Short Arm'ed girls, Few girls in my son Middle school had such short arm that were above there waistline...

They can have a skirt with just a waistline band?
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Old 06-11-2014, 10:15 AM
 
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Schools are not bars, or other entertainment establishments, so IMO all schools should have uniforms, and all schools should contract with uniform manufacturers to make uniforms per their guidelines! (That's just common sense)
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