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Old 12-16-2009, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Austin TX
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Originally Posted by Repubocrat View Post
Keep kissing Missy's ass, maybe she will send you a naked picture of herself for being such an understanding and compassionate gentleman. She is so innocent and such a good Mom, but her kids, man, they are so evil and rotten!! I never realized how many MORONS are out there in this world, until I read this BUT this thread should be made into a book or a Lifetime special, pathetic in a very funny or maybe very sad way.
Wahine is Hawaiian for woman. That would make me yet another woman in this thread who thinks you're an uptight puritanical hypocritical killjoy who has probably never had sex with the lights on. Oh, the humanity!

 
Old 12-16-2009, 05:03 PM
 
Location: Lehigh Acres
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and now my 16 year old thinks I am a ****. I'm devestated. what do I do now?
forward them to everyone on citydata? lol jk...

well is it a son or a daughter? there are different ways to handle the situation... i think if it is a daughter, then tell her that you and your husband like to keep your relationship new and exciting and one day she will understand, if it is a son, then tell him the same thing, and he will be grossed out...
 
Old 12-16-2009, 05:51 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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You're married. You're exclusive. You're in love with your husband. Just because you become a mom and your husband a dad does not mean your sex life stops all of a sudden. There is a huge difference between sexting between two married, loving adults, and teens. And your child needs to recognize that.

There is no way I would stop or hinder my sex life with my spouse because my child found something from it. I would first off let him/her know that under no circumstances is s/he to ever talk about his/her mother like that, and that your life as a mom and your life as a wife might mix together once in awhile, but they are also two very different aspects of your life. One part s/he is central to. The other, s/he has no business being in. End of story.

Oh, and keep your cell phones away from your kids.
 
Old 12-16-2009, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Lots of good food for thought on this thread Missy

I wish you well with your daughters going forward, and hope everyone has learned whatever lesson they were supposed to learn!
 
Old 12-16-2009, 07:11 PM
 
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Lots of good food for thought on this thread Missy

I wish you well with your daughters going forward, and hope everyone has learned whatever lesson they were supposed to learn!
good post. I read through it and can't believe how judgy-wudgy people are. Keep doing what you're doing. I would be frank and open with your girl and try to explain the difference between you (a grown woman in a marital relationship) and her when it comes to that situation. And then have a good laugh at it. She should feel lucky that her parents are still in love.
 
Old 12-16-2009, 09:24 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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The Tribe has spoken.
 
Old 12-16-2009, 09:41 PM
 
Location: Vero Beach, Fl
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I hold to the - if you do not want anyone to see it except one person, then you don't send it via phone , email, post on Facebook, Myspace, etc. because you never ever know who else is going to see it. Your husband can wait until gets home to enjoy all that you have to offer.

Adults and parents need to understand, particularly in today's world, that there is a time and place for everything.

Your child will remember this for the rest of their life. While it may sound extreme, you might seek professional guidance on how to handle this.
 
Old 12-16-2009, 10:44 PM
 
Location: California
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My husband would never, ever ever be so hateful to do something like that. EVER.
Famous last words....

As far as having to have "a boring sex life" what the hell did people do before the camera phone? Or computers for that matter?

Man, people are dumb. And apparently lack creativity too. How many "celebrity sex tapes" have we seen now where they were only making it for themselves but.....

Yup.

My mother taught me not to put anything in writing that could be used against me. She didn't HAVE to warn me about naked photos, I'm just smart like that.

In fact, this is SO STUPID that even if it's true I can't even believe a real person would post it on an internet forum.
 
Old 12-17-2009, 05:20 AM
 
Location: NW Montana
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Well I strolled back to see how this was resolving, hope someone takes a lesson.
reminds me of a song....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZ5bS3_BCDs
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