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That doesn't even matter. What matters is that these girls now know that their MOM condones sending nudie pics. I'm not judging here...really I'm not. But this is exactly the sort of thing that gets these kids in trouble...Missy had better sit those girls down HARD and have a very very serious talk about this.
I don't know...... Shes an adult married women, this isn't some guy shes been seeing for a couple of weeks.
WHY? It's normal for you to have sex with your DH and I would just tell your child that although you did not want her to see the pics, the simple fact is that this is what you do with her father behind closed doors.
Did she tell you that or is that what you THINK? Regardless, if you act guilty about it, IMO it's only going to get worse. Just act like it's normal (because it is) and the situation will just blow over.
No she told me that.. but I think it was just mainly initial shock
and now my 16 year old thinks I am a ****. I'm devestated. what do I do now?
This is the part that I have the most problem with. If your 16 year old thinks of you as ANYTHING other than mommy then you've got some serious problems. Especially if she told you this.
Nothing really wrong with what you did (I would never have done it myself), but what is really wrong is the relationship you have with your 16 year old. I think this should be a "Parenting" thread instead of a relationship thread. You may get the parenting help you need from the regulars there.
Good luck in repairing the relationship with your 16 year old.
I don't know...... Shes an adult married women, this isn't some guy shes been seeing for a couple of weeks.
You aren't getting my point. I'm talking about the GIRLS, and what they are taking away from this. You haven't heard all the crap lately about "sexting" from teen girls? That is what needs to be addressed here.
You aren't getting my point. I'm talking about the GIRLS, and what they are taking away from this. You haven't heard all the crap lately about "sexting" from teen girls? That is what needs to be addressed here.
My girls have no means to do "sexting". One doesn't have a phone and the other doesn't have internet on hers. The home computer is in the living room.
This is the part that I have the most problem with. If your 16 year old thinks of you as ANYTHING other than mommy then you've got some serious problems. Especially if she told you this.
Nothing really wrong with what you did (I would never have done it myself), but what is really wrong is the relationship you have with your 16 year old. I think this should be a "Parenting" thread instead of a relationship thread. You may get the parenting help you need from the regulars there.
Good luck in repairing the relationship with your 16 year old.
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