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Old 03-29-2010, 04:30 PM
 
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I met my g/f 4 years ago. We have lived together most of this time in rentals. A year into our relationship her 20 year old son managed to get an underaged bi-polar girl pregnant. Disaster. my lesbian partner and I are now fostering her grandchild since she was 2 months old. She is now 2 years old and we are the guardians and soon to be adopted parents. I have been the primary caregiver to this child since my partner has ADHD and Multiple Sclerosis. Although fairly independent, I assist in her care. We recently relocated closer to her son to a home my partner owns and she has asked me to move out because we have differences with her son visiting the child. For the first two years of this babies life her son made no concerted effort to visit, send diapers, formula..nothing. The state terminated his rights b/c he did not comply in order for him to have custody. He has been a burden since I met him. Now because we live within 1/2 hour of his apartment he wants to be with her. He is a daily weed smoker, has had 4 arrests in his 21 years and is constantly being watched by the police. I have opposed unsupervised visits without me but my g/f does not agree and is becoming verbally and physically abusive. She has asked me to move out. More like wants to kick me out. What are my rights? Any advise?
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Old 03-29-2010, 05:18 PM
 
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If I were in your position, I would contact a Family Law attorney asap. If you don't have the money for one, contact Legal Aid. This isn't something that can be resolved through advice on a message board.
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Old 03-30-2010, 09:34 AM
 
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Yes definatally seek out legal advise for the sake of that baby!!
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