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Old 03-30-2009, 10:42 PM
Location: Cottage Grove Minnesota
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My daughters father and I have not been together since se was probably about one. We decided that I would not file for child support as long as I left him alone. He kept dissappointing my daughter saying he would come see her and didn't or he was late. So knowing that he was doing that when she was only a baby I knew he was always going to do it. Drinking and partying was obviously more important. I didn't want him to hurt my daughter when she was able to realize what was going on see he moved. Well being a single parent on 1 income bacame so overwhelming that I finally decided to file for child support. But trying to be nice about it I dropped ALL the back child support that I could have gotten him for. But anyway, He racked it all up again but is atleast trying to pay it now. So now I just received court papers saying we have to go again because he has been paying child support for 2 kids. So now I find out he has another child not even 2 years younger than mine. Well I guess I now know why he couldn't come to see our daughter. He was out partying gettying someone else pregnant. So point being, I would like to see if there is a way to find out who his other child is and its mother in case in the future my daughter wants to know. She has no clue whatsoever about who her real dad is because I don't know how and when to tell her. Also I found out from his family that he is a heroin addict so that makes it even harder. But obviously I will tell her when the right time comes, whenever that is. Is there a way to find out by the childs birthday and what county and the fathers name? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
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