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Old 02-28-2012, 01:12 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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I think there is more in play than government. It takes a person or some people to create what you want. For example, I grew up in Oakmont and played basketball and volleyball 5 nights a week at the school gym. The gym teacher opened the gym for a small fee. I think I paid $1 to play each night except one night of volleyball that was $2. Yes, I had to pay, but someone let us play. I go back to that town all the time. Guess how many nights the gym is open now? Zero. That gym teacher retired and no one picked up the ball. We were lucky to have a place to go almost EVERY night! Do you think that changed my life for the better? Of course it did. What would I have done every night if that wasn't open? Who knows? I also remember the teacher giving me the keys to the gym if he couldn't make it. That was very rare, but imagine how that made me feel that he trusted me. I will never forget the first time he asked me to open and close the gym down. I was just some kid and not a geek type. More of a rebel.

Your story along with thousands of others serves as proof that if kids had something productive to do they are less likely to get into any trouble. This the reason why I wonder why they make the various rec centers unavailable and at the same time complain about the increase in crime. If people like ourselves can see what a difference that it made in our lives why can't the politicians?
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Old 02-28-2012, 01:26 PM
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Your story along with thousands of others serves as proof that if kids had something productive to do they are less likely to get into any trouble. This the reason why I wonder why they make the various rec centers unavailable and at the same time complain about the increase in crime. If people like ourselves can see what a difference that it made in our lives why can't the politicians?
I think politicians are too far removed. They are all super wealthy and we vote them in that way. Do you think the current people in the big political arena care about some gym in a city that closed? They belong to clubs for a few grand a year and have formal sports and training. They don't understand that public gym. Only rich get in, because they can buy more negative ads. Anyway, people in communities CAN make a difference. Even one person. Find that school gym and try and get permission to hold basketball or whatever sport a certain number of nights a week. It could be done, but takes people or even one person. I don't think we will ever get anything like that from a government. Has to be from within each community. My memories of that gym are great. I was very lucky to be able to walk to the gym. It was closed in the summer, but it was light late enough to play b-ball outside or other sports.
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Old 02-28-2012, 06:21 PM
 
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My point is that if they can find money to put the youths in jail why can't they find money to keep them busy/productive?
Because having a strong police force is a must for all of society. Of course there will be more police in inner city areas because that appears to be a high crime area. However, spending our tax dollars trying to keep kids busy is not our responsibility and is not a must for society.

I never went to one rec center or after school program in my entire life and believe it or not, never had a run in with the law when I was a kid, or as an adult. Do you know why? Because if I did I knew when I got home there would be hell to pay. Infact, I would be better off just not going home again had I ever been actually arrested.

So in otherwords, the kid of a good parent will behave regardless of whether or not the parent can maintain a constant presence or not.

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Old 02-28-2012, 06:25 PM
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So in otherwords, the kid of a good parent will behave regardless of whether or not the parent can maintain a constant presence or not.
True.
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Old 02-28-2012, 07:34 PM
 
Location: About 10 miles north of Pittsburgh International
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But as a practical matter, doesn't society benefit from somebody stepping in and doing what some parents are failing to do? It may not be government's "responsibility", but one could argue, for example, that taking care of the needs of senior citizens isn't either. Don't they have children to do that?
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Old 02-28-2012, 11:57 PM
 
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But as a practical matter, doesn't society benefit from somebody stepping in and doing what some parents are failing to do? It may not be government's "responsibility", but one could argue, for example, that taking care of the needs of senior citizens isn't either. Don't they have children to do that?
I see where you are coming from and I agree.
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Old 02-29-2012, 07:41 AM
 
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I think politicians are too far removed. They are all super wealthy and we vote them in that way. Do you think the current people in the big political arena care about some gym in a city that closed? They belong to clubs for a few grand a year and have formal sports and training. They don't understand that public gym. Only rich get in, because they can buy more negative ads. Anyway, people in communities CAN make a difference. Even one person. Find that school gym and try and get permission to hold basketball or whatever sport a certain number of nights a week. It could be done, but takes people or even one person. I don't think we will ever get anything like that from a government. Has to be from within each community. My memories of that gym are great. I was very lucky to be able to walk to the gym. It was closed in the summer, but it was light late enough to play b-ball outside or other sports.
Do you want something really sad? The Hill, despite the numerous amount of athletes that came from there never had any real organized pee wee football until a few of the drug dealers put up the money to sponser some teams. This held true for a few of the Kennard basketball teams that play diferent parts of the city and even the Pitt players from time to time. While the city does nothing, and then thaey wonder why some of the kids look up to the drug dealer

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Old 02-29-2012, 07:43 AM
 
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Here's an idea. Get a hundred minorities and dress them up in Klan garb and infiltrate the meeting. LOL That should raise a few eyebrows from the Grand Lizard and his manure salesmen.
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Old 02-29-2012, 07:49 AM
 
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But as a practical matter, doesn't society benefit from somebody stepping in and doing what some parents are failing to do? It may not be government's "responsibility", but one could argue, for example, that taking care of the needs of senior citizens isn't either. Don't they have children to do that?
Not really, many of the children are doing worst than their parents. this holds true especially in poor neighborhoods. What about the kids that leave the area because of lack of jobs? What about those whose relationship with their parents is strained? What if they never had kids? I feel that seniors have paid their dues by working in some of the worst conditions and have lived through everything from the depression to the civil rights riots and assinations of some of our greatest leaders. Why should'nt the government help them? They are a great natural resource, especially for information
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Old 02-29-2012, 06:32 PM
 
Location: About 10 miles north of Pittsburgh International
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Not really, many of the children are doing worst than their parents. this holds true especially in poor neighborhoods. What about the kids that leave the area because of lack of jobs? What about those whose relationship with their parents is strained? What if they never had kids? I feel that seniors have paid their dues by working in some of the worst conditions and have lived through everything from the depression to the civil rights riots and assinations of some of our greatest leaders. Why should'nt the government help them? They are a great natural resource, especially for information
You missed my point. I said "one could argue", just to illustrate the point that sometimes practical matters trump actual "responsibility", not to enter a discussion of whether seniors deserve government help or not.
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