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Old 09-17-2010, 01:32 PM
 
Location: Littleton, CO
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When you wish to make your post not so condescending get back to me.
Why would I want to make my post "not so condescending" when my deliberate intention is to condescend?

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The word is either offensive or its not
Sorry, the real world demonstrates pretty clearly that this is not true. Have you not been reading the thread?

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You dont get to appoint yourself the person that gets to decide when it is or isnt.
I certainly do for me. And sometimes I find the word offensive, and sometimes I do not.

I afford that same latitude to everybody else as well, and give them the further latitude to be offended when I am not and vice versa.

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Have a nice day
I almost always do. I'm a liberal.
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Old 09-17-2010, 01:33 PM
 
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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As long as some can say it without repercussions,
anybody should be able to say it. Why are some
more 'special' than others?

PC is BS!

Would you call the president, Mr. President? or "Yo, Prez?"

Would you introduce yourself politely to Mr. Shumaker, the company vice president, or would you say "Sup Tom, how's them boyz hangin?"

Honorific - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Special situations abound in normal conversation.
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Old 09-17-2010, 01:33 PM
 
Location: Littleton, CO
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What word can I say, and you can't?
Again, we can't answer that question. We don't really know who you are.
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Old 09-17-2010, 01:38 PM
 
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That very much is true. In the other thread about Dr laura democrats said that a white person using this word at all makes someone a racist. So Bill Maher by that standard is a racist because he is white and used it. Case closed

Either the word is offensive or its not. Either using it makes someone a racist or it doesnt. It is said to be this highly offensive word and I agree it is.
Sorry you cant claim that its such an offensive word that white people cant use it without being racist but then say oh its ok if its used in this manner. Sorry you are never going to end the use of the word or racism long as you are making excuses for the word being used.

Because then what you have is someone thinking they can decide when its offensive and when its not and that standard is going to be different for everyone. Then you are always going to be having this discussion and appearing to be a hypocrite
Well I didn't say anything in that thread because as I previously stated, I don't give a damn what Dr. Laura says. We both know it's not as cut and dry as you would like to make it out to be. Keep pretending not to know the difference...I already told you that I have heard White people use it without being offensive and that I have heard Black people use it offensively. Ever heard the saying, "It's not what you say, it's how you say it?"

Clearly you are not using logic...for some people, everything is secondary to partisanism. I have never called Dr. Laura a racist and her resignation was her choice. Just as you don't represent all Conservatives (thank God), I do not represent all Liberals. You have lost all sense of rationality in a lame attempt to prove a moot point. Use of the word n***er is not what causes racism, it's the racist. You know the difference.
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Old 09-17-2010, 01:46 PM
 
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Why would I want to make my post "not so condescending" when my deliberate intention is to condescend?

Thats funny...Wonder if the mods here will edit your personal attacks, like they do to others?

Just curious..
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Old 09-17-2010, 01:47 PM
 
Location: bold new city of the south
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Again, we can't answer that question. We don't really know who you are.
Let's go with White Christian Hetero-sexual Conservative,
be careful, PC you know.
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Old 09-17-2010, 02:01 PM
 
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So many people defending the use of the word in a proper context?!?!?

Strangely enough, that was exactly what the Dr. was arguing for... Some can use the word while others can't. In this case both were white... but in the proper context!?!?

What did Dr. Laura say on-air? Audio and transcript of her “N” word tirade and apology : starcasm.net

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Old 09-17-2010, 02:03 PM
 
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So many people defending the use of the word in a proper context?!?!?

Strangely enough, that was exactly what the Dr. was arguing for... Some can use the word while others can't In this case both were white... but in the proper context!?!?

What did Dr. Laura say on-air? Audio and transcript of her “N” word tirade and apology : starcasm.net
Strangely enough, that's why several of us "liberals" said Dr Laura wasn't being racist during her tirade. Insensitive and rude. But not racist.
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Old 09-17-2010, 02:14 PM
 
Location: South Fla
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Well I didn't say anything in that thread because as I previously stated, I don't give a damn what Dr. Laura says. We both know it's not as cut and dry as you would like to make it out to be. Keep pretending not to know the difference...I already told you that I have heard White people use it without being offensive and that I have heard Black people use it offensively. Ever heard the saying, "It's not what you say, it's how you say it?"

Clearly you are not using logic...for some people, everything is secondary to partisanism. I have never called Dr. Laura a racist and her resignation was her choice. Just as you don't represent all Conservatives (thank God), I do not represent all Liberals. You have lost all sense of rationality in a lame attempt to prove a moot point. Use of the word n***er is not what causes racism, it's the racist. You know the difference.
Sorry in my eyes that makes someone a hypocrite.

To claim to want to end racism but to say that the most offensive word a white person can use is acceptable long as its say hear say or certain times. Is never going to end racism

That is not going to stop anyone from using the word. Its going to continue to cause things like this. Its acceptable for certain people to use and not for others. So the word will continue to be used.

I am not saying you per say when it comes to the other thread or you calling Dr Laura a racist. I am saying however that democrats in that thread and on this board have called republicans racist for no reason other then being a republican. Let any republican go on national tv and use that word and the responses in this thread would be different.

I find it very hypocritical for democrats to claim to be the party for minorities and against racism and so on yet so many are here making excuses for a word that had a republican used well you get it.

I just dont want to hear any democrat ever complain about any white republican that might use that word thats all. Its that simple
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Old 09-17-2010, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Littleton, CO
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Thats funny...Wonder if the mods here will edit your personal attacks, like they do to others?

Just curious..
I don't think you know what condescending means.

I hope that didn't sound condescending.
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