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Old 03-05-2011, 09:44 PM
 
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Searchers angry at CA family in missing girl case - U.S. news - msnbc.com

This girl's mother married a Muslim, so the girl is not even Muslim at all, yet her Muslim stepfather had arranged to sell her in "marriage" to a Pakistani. The girl is only 13 but had the sense enough to run and hide.

I hope the mother and the stepfather will be prosecuted and sent to jail for attempted rape/sex trafficking.

Unbelievable. I wonder how many times this happens in our country to unsuspecting young girls, and we never hear about it.
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Old 03-05-2011, 09:47 PM
 
Location: Fuquay-Varina
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Throw the book at them! I am glad the daughter had the foresight to leave, and then received national attention which should greatly deter this from happening to her.
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Old 03-05-2011, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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This girl's mother married a Muslim, so the girl is not even Muslim at all,
LOL WUT???

How do you know what religion the girl is? How do you know what her personal beliefs are?

What do her beliefs have to do with who her mother married?




EDIT: Disclaimer: I do not support arranged marriages
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Old 03-05-2011, 09:55 PM
 
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Searchers angry at CA family in missing girl case - U.S. news - msnbc.com

This girl's mother married a Muslim, so the girl is not even Muslim at all, yet her Muslim stepfather had arranged to sell her in "marriage" to a Pakistani. The girl is only 13 but had the sense enough to run and hide.

I hope the mother and the stepfather will be prosecuted and sent to jail for attempted rape/sex trafficking.

Unbelievable. I wonder how many times this happens in our country to unsuspecting young girls, and we never hear about it.
You should read this book it is the story of Nujood Ali a courageous little girl.
I Am Nujood, Age 10 and Divorced
Unfortunately, Ali's story is far from unusual. Half of Yemeni girls are married off before they hit 18; over a quarter are younger than 15 -- by the time a girl hits high school age, she's already starting to look less marriageable.
These early marriages are deemed desirable to fend off the possibility that a girl might "shame" her family by getting involved with a boy and as a financial arrangement by poor families. While in cases like Ali's the husband often promises the parents he'll wait to have sexual intercourse until his bride is older, if he goes ahead and rapes his new wife, there's nothing stopping him. Last year, a 12-year-old Yemeni girl died in labor, her immature body not ready for pregnancy.
Married at Age 8, Divorced at 10: Story of an Empowered Child Bride | Change.org News
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Old 03-05-2011, 10:00 PM
 
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You should read this book it is the story of Nujood Ali a courageous little girl.
I Am Nujood, Age 10 and Divorced
Unfortunately, Ali's story is far from unusual. Half of Yemeni girls are married off before they hit 18; over a quarter are younger than 15 -- by the time a girl hits high school age, she's already starting to look less marriageable.
These early marriages are deemed desirable to fend off the possibility that a girl might "shame" her family by getting involved with a boy and as a financial arrangement by poor families. While in cases like Ali's the husband often promises the parents he'll wait to have sexual intercourse until his bride is older, if he goes ahead and rapes his new wife, there's nothing stopping him. Last year, a 12-year-old Yemeni girl died in labor, her immature body not ready for pregnancy.
Married at Age 8, Divorced at 10: Story of an Empowered Child Bride | Change.org News
Where is NOW? Where are all the feminist groups? When anyone asks me why I no longer describe myself as a feminist, it's because I'm disgusted by their cowardice.
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Old 03-05-2011, 10:08 PM
 
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Where is NOW? Where are all the feminist groups? When anyone asks me why I no longer describe myself as a feminist, it's because I'm disgusted by their cowardice.
I agree!
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Old 03-05-2011, 10:11 PM
 
Location: California
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I'm just glad the girl had the sense to run away.
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Old 03-06-2011, 06:51 AM
 
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The girl needs to be taken out of that warped and twisted household and put in protective child services or in the care of a relative. The courts can determine if her stepfather needs to be deported as an undesirable or if any crime has been committed by him or her mother. The mother might have been abused as well for all we know so its best he be removed from that house ASAP.
Somebody should have stepped in and told the guy in no uncertain terms that his plans were NEVER going to happen and he'd face dire consequences if he didn't drop them. I'd have sent him packing on the first plane back to Pakistan if I was related to the girl.
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Old 03-06-2011, 07:59 AM
 
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Searchers angry at CA family in missing girl case - U.S. news - msnbc.com

This girl's mother married a Muslim, so the girl is not even Muslim at all, yet her Muslim stepfather had arranged to sell her in "marriage" to a Pakistani. The girl is only 13 but had the sense enough to run and hide.

I hope the mother and the stepfather will be prosecuted and sent to jail for attempted rape/sex trafficking.

Unbelievable. I wonder how many times this happens in our country to unsuspecting young girls, and we never hear about it.
Well by having a muslim father, the girls is a muslim under the laws of islam. The shameful mother is to blame. She likely was using her own daughter as bait to snare herself a man.

The bigger questions to ask - why are we bringing in all these muslims in the first place? They have their beliefs but they are incompatilble with ours.
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Old 03-06-2011, 08:21 AM
 
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Well by having a muslim father, the girls is a muslim under the laws of islam. The shameful mother is to blame. She likely was using her own daughter as bait to snare herself a man.

The bigger questions to ask - why are we bringing in all these muslims in the first place? They have their beliefs but they are incompatilble with ours.
No, the girl is not his biological child and he did not adopt her. Not that a bio child doesn't deserve protection -- as she certainly would! But it just shows how bold these cockroaches are that they would do such a thing to a child that isn't even technically their child. She "belongs" to the mother and the mother "belongs" to him. This is the thinking.
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