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Old 06-15-2011, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Dallas, TX
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Until there's an amendment saying that anyone can marry, states have that right to allow or disallow.
My point is that marriage shouldn't be state government's business either. Besides, the idea that states' rights were meant to take over and control people where the federal authority stopped is blasphemous at best.

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To clarify, "state-controlled" was meant to mean "government controlled" in the above context. I don't think that I disagree with you on this issue if I understand your position correctly.

The government should not issue licenses to be married, be it at the Federal, State, or Local level.
Amen to that.
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Old 06-15-2011, 10:19 AM
 
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Maybe "marriage" should not be the determining factor in legal issues at all. There are lots of entities that recognize documented same-sex or opposite-sex domestic partnerships. To me, the word "marriage" belongs in churches.
Which is odd since marriage did not start or spend most of history as a religious institution. Marriage did not have a religious component in England (which is where our laws come from) until the late 18th Century.

Marriage has always historically been a business contract between families, in most cases where the man gained ownership of his wife (or often wives).
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Old 06-15-2011, 10:22 AM
 
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Of course DOMA violates the equal protection clause.

Consider two legally married couples in Iowa - one a male-male gay couple, one a male-female straight couple. If the man in the straight marriage employs his wife, he does not have to pay unemployment insurance tax of his wife's wages. If one man in the gay marriage employs his husband, he must pay this tax. Why - because of DOMA. DOMA treats married homosexuals differently from married heterosexuals (namely it denies married homosexuals 1100 civil rights). As such, it clearly violates the equal protection clause.
You're wasting time with Calvinist. He always argues that gays can marry the opposite sex just like straights, therefore they are equal.
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Old 06-15-2011, 10:29 AM
 
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You're wasting time with Calvinist. He always argues that gays can marry the opposite sex just like straights, therefore they are equal.

It's a stupid argument, and it's irrelevant to this case. This ruling said that DOMA is unconstitutional in that it treats legally married homosexuals differently than legally married heterosexuals.

It doesn't speak to states that don't allow gay marriage, just to how the federal government treats married homosexuals in the states that do.
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Old 06-15-2011, 10:33 AM
 
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If you're going to challenge my opinion that the government shouldn't issue licenses to be married, please do so. Otherwise, you're just name-calling. Why do you feel that it is imperative for the government to license relationships?
I never said that. I was referring to the fact that most liberals tend to think those that don't agree with them are idiots.
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Old 06-15-2011, 10:34 AM
 
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You're wasting time with Calvinist. He always argues that gays can marry the opposite sex just like straights, therefore they are equal.
Is that not correct? Why should we legislate according to feelings, attraction, or love? There has never been a precedent for it in the past.
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Old 06-15-2011, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Why should we legislate according to feelings, attraction, or love? There has never been a precedent for it in the past.
We don't. A man and a woman can enter into a marriage contract without feelings, attraction, or love.

However, a man and a man or a woman and a woman, cannot.
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Old 06-15-2011, 10:39 AM
 
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We don't. A man and a woman can enter into a marriage contract without feelings, attraction, or love.

However, a man and a man or a woman and a woman, cannot.
It's never been an issue until recently. What non-gay man or woman would WANT to marry someone of the same gender?
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Old 06-15-2011, 10:43 AM
 
Location: Pleasant Ridge, Cincinnati, OH
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I never said that. I was referring to the fact that most liberals tend to think those that don't agree with them are idiots.
Who says I'm a liberal? Who says I think people who don't agree with me are idiots? I'm simply suggesting that people give more support for their arguments. For all I know, they may have very good reasons why they think that marriage must require government licensure.
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Old 06-15-2011, 10:46 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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It's never been an issue until recently. What non-gay man or woman would WANT to marry someone of the same gender?
Hmmm...

What homosexual would WANT to marry someone of the opposite gender?

Yet, you argue that heterosexuals and homosexuals have the same right to marry someone of the opposite gender.
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