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Old 09-07-2011, 02:15 PM
 
Location: One of the 13 original colonies.
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You missed the point entirely. I clearly stated that I did not condone the violence. Did you miss that part?

In case no one ever told you.....ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES.

A gay person inappropriately hitting on a straight person should know the action will not be welcome and what I said--in case you didn't understand--was that if homosexuality is going to be taught in schools, then gay kids should also be taught that trying to get cozy with a straight kid is likely going to **** off the straight kid.

I stand by the post and its message.
That's the way it is with these people it you don't agree with their thinking or feel the way they do, you should be ashamed or you are a bigot or homophobe. They refuse any thought that goes against what they want to believe is right.
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Old 09-07-2011, 02:17 PM
 
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Men can have sex with each other.

They certainly can. Abnormal sex.
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Old 09-07-2011, 02:32 PM
 
Location: Neither here nor there
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That's the way it is with these people it you don't agree with their thinking or feel the way they do, you should be ashamed or you are a bigot or homophobe. They refuse any thought that goes against what they want to believe is right.
Back in the Dark Ages, when I was in high school, we had a phrase--"cruising for a bruising". Such lessons are learned early in life by most people. A straight man who grabs at woman's breast inappropriately will unleash the bit.ch in her and a gay man who strokes a straight man's leg might end up wishing he had not.
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Old 09-07-2011, 02:40 PM
 
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You say being gay is not "natural".

Marriage is not natural. I don't see two dogs getting married.
Monogamy is not natural. Infidelity is a common thing.

You also say "gay sex" is disgusting and vaginal sex is the only acceptable sex practive because that is what our bodies were made for.
Then why do so many heterosexual couples have anal sex?
Why do you not condemn oral sex? The penis should go into the vagina and not anywhere else. How many of the anti-gay folks forego oral sex?

Marriage is a human institution which is to ensure a stable environment in which offspring of a longer maturation process (due to longer time for brain development) are able to safely reach adulthood.

Monogamy is seen in the animal kingdom freqently. Wolves, doves, swans, ect mate for life. They mate with the opposite sex of the same species.

Evolution is based on the "survival of the most fit", which is ability to pass on one's DNA to the next generation. Homosexuality is an evolutionary "dead end" , in which any potentially adaptive genetic material dies with the individual.

-- I don't care whether you are gay or not. I think that few people care one way or another. However, to claim "normalacy" is a reach.
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Old 09-07-2011, 02:45 PM
 
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A gay kid hitting on a straight kid which is what preceded the attack, is also not a good thing.

I'm not condoning the action of shooting someone in the back of the head but don't try and pretend there was no provocation. If homosexuality is going to be introduced in schools, then gay kids need to learn that they should not be hitting on straight kids. I addressed this in an earlier post:
Um, I see a glaring double standard here. Women have had to endure unwanted advances from men for all of human history. That doesn't give them the right to kill a guy who does it.

Why are straight men allowed to hit on anything that walks, but a gay guy can't hit on a straight guy? Clearly it's a macho double standard and straight men just can't handle knowing what it's like to be the object of unwanted sexual advances like they have been doing to women for all of history.

Sorry, no sympathy whatsoever. My best friend is as straight and secure in his sexuality as anyone can be. He's married with 2 kids. He's also a good looking man. He's been hit on and flirted with by gay guys his entire life. He takes it as a compliment and just says, sorry, I'm straight.
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Old 09-07-2011, 02:55 PM
 
Location: Europe
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They certainly can. Abnormal sex.
So is oral sex. I am sure you are just fine with it.
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Old 09-07-2011, 02:57 PM
 
Location: One of the 13 original colonies.
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Back in the Dark Ages, when I was in high school, we had a phrase--"cruising for a bruising". Such lessons are learned early in life by most people. A straight man who grabs at woman's breast inappropriately will unleash the bit.ch in her and a gay man who strokes a straight man's leg might end up wishing he had not.
Exactly!
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Old 09-07-2011, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Neither here nor there
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Um, I see a glaring double standard here. Women have had to endure unwanted advances from men for all of human history. That doesn't give them the right to kill a guy who does it.

Why are straight men allowed to hit on anything that walks, but a gay guy can't hit on a straight guy? Clearly it's a macho double standard and straight men just can't handle knowing what it's like to be the object of unwanted sexual advances like they have been doing to women for all of history.

Sorry, no sympathy whatsoever. My best friend is as straight and secure in his sexuality as anyone can be. He's married with 2 kids. He's also a good looking man. He's been hit on and flirted with by gay guys his entire life. He takes it as a compliment and just says, sorry, I'm straight.
Why can't you gay people understand that there are two sides to any issue? I'm not saying the two sides necessarily balance each other out in every instance and in all circumstances. Only that most of you are so blind that you cannot see anyone's viewpoint except your own.

Straight men don't "hit on anything that walks". They hit on women. If the woman doesn't like it, he'll get some kind of pissy response. If a gay man hits on a straight man, he may be asking for trouble and. if trouble comes, he is the one who opened that door. There are civilized ways to reject such advances and I'm not justifying violence to them but like it or not, that's the way it is. Some straight men might take it for a compliment. The rest won't like it and their response might be unpredictable.
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Old 09-07-2011, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Geneva, IL
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Um, I see a glaring double standard here. Women have had to endure unwanted advances from men for all of human history. That doesn't give them the right to kill a guy who does it.

Why are straight men allowed to hit on anything that walks, but a gay guy can't hit on a straight guy? Clearly it's a macho double standard and straight men just can't handle knowing what it's like to be the object of unwanted sexual advances like they have been doing to women for all of history.

Sorry, no sympathy whatsoever. My best friend is as straight and secure in his sexuality as anyone can be. He's married with 2 kids. He's also a good looking man. He's been hit on and flirted with by gay guys his entire life. He takes it as a compliment and just says, sorry, I'm straight.
Well said. The haters are always going to justify violence against "the gays" because, according to them, "he was looking at/touching/flirting" with them. They will never admit to the glaring double standard.
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Old 09-07-2011, 03:34 PM
 
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They certainly can. Abnormal sex.
What's abnormal to you may not be abnormal to others. The bottom line: Live and let live.
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