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Originally Posted by passwithoutatrace
Out of curiosity, how many of the people throwing a fit over a person in the "wrong bathroom" would also be horrified if a man went into a woman's restroom with a disabled female? Many bathrooms have signs allowing an attendant of the opposite gender to go into that bathroom, complete with a picture. How is that different than a person identifying as female in a bathroom?
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Because they think that transgender people are really creepy men pedophiles in disguise using transsexuality as a way to "pass" to get into the women's bathroom so they can creepily look at little girls.
Of course, the vast majority of trans people have zero interest in children sexually, just like the vast majority of straight and gay people. But that won't stop paranoid people from making that argument. Just do a simple CD search of any sort of trans-related issues and that's exactly what will pop up.
My gender is very ambiguous to people and coupled with blindness, people constantly think I'm going into the wrong bathroom. There are either two scenarios: 1) there are braille signs so I know I'm going in the right one or 2) there aren't braille signs so I shouldn't be held responsible for going into the right one anyway.
Incidentally enough, many bathrooms aren't accessible despite being said to be accessible because they lack a door-opening button or the sinks are too high or there is such a crowd of people a wheelchair-user has no way of wading through. This is why I propose a new solution:
single bathroom off to the side from both the men's and women's restrooms, that would allow
transgendered and genderqu$er people to go to the bathroom in peace, would allow
families to go to the bathroom (i.e. if mommy is bringing her 4-year-old son to go pee) and would allow
disabled people (whether or not with caregivers that are of the opposite sex) to go to the bathroom, because it would be able to meet a higher standard of accessibility (button, even better would be an automatic door), and sinks that are actually low enough for wheelchair users to use, which almost never happens in regular bathrooms.
1. Men/women wouldn't have to feel threatened. In the .0000000000001% chance scenario where there is some creepy pedophile posing as a transwoman, that wouldn't be able to happen anymore.
2. The 99.999999% of cases where people are just trans or genderqu$er and wanting to go about their business would be able to do so in a way they feel safe and wouldn't feel threatened.
2. A single stall is much easier for blind people and people with other disabilities to navigate. Also many disabled people take longer because of the nature of their disability and they wouldn't be adding to the wait in the main line anymore.
3. Families with mixed sexes, such as fathers with young daughters and mothers with young sons would be able to use the restroom without making other people uncomfortable.
4. The bathroom could meet a might higher standard of accessibility for all minority groups, containing a regular-sized urinal and a lower-urinal for kids, a regular-sized toilet and smaller toilet for kids, and a regular sink and a lowered sink for kids and wheelchair users. It could also have the device for diaper-changing and a tampon/pad dispenser so that transmen and genderqu$er women wouldn't have to awkwardly search for tampons.
Is there anyone that sees anything wrong with this suggestion? Anyone on either side of the issue disagree with any aspect of this solution?