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Old 05-29-2012, 06:51 PM
 
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[quote=Who?Me?!;24515273]It's a personal attack by asking pertinent questions on your apparent hypocrisy and/or confusion????..No, it's calling you out
on your conflicting claims that men are poor sad victims who had their children stolen from them AND they are horrible monsters who beat their girlfriends to death because they didn't get an abortion.

Either way it's none of their business....or yours.[/quote]

And that is what is the most horrible part of it all. None of your business about women being abused----move along.
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Old 05-29-2012, 09:08 PM
 
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Jad Hunter

March 2000 - May 20th, 2000

I knew the rainy evening Jad was conceived we were going to have a baby.

I walked my fiancée to the door and kissed them both goodnight under a soft pale moon. There's no point here and now to reflect on those moments up until the abortion of our baby. Jad is not here, and that's all that matters. I will never hold him. I will never see what he looked like. I will never tickle his feet. I will never hear his laugh. I never be able to love him....Well, no that's not true. I do love him. I just will never be able to tell him and show him here on Earth...but someday, I still hope to find forgiveness for his Mother who did this without my knowledge. God knows how much I wanted Jad and how much I love him.... and that faith...will see me thru until the beautiful day I can tell Jad myself.
How nice. Now about a a poem for the single Mom who had the child's Dad promist to be there IF she had the baby but isn't?
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Old 05-29-2012, 09:14 PM
 
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How nice. Now about a a poem for the single Mom who had the child's Dad promist to be there IF she had the baby but isn't?

You can probably find one of those if you go to this site--- Rachel's Vineyard Ministries but you probably won't. See no evil and it won't bother you.
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Old 05-29-2012, 09:52 PM
 
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Father's Reflections

I Still Cry

Sometimes I look at my two children,
And I know there should be three.
I still cry.
Sometimes I see a family with two sons close in age with a daughter,
And then I look at mine.
I still cry.
I know, Father, you have forgiven me because I took my pain to Christ,
But how do I explain to him why I did this and why he had no life.
The ball games lost, hunting, camping and all the long talks,
Father -son times we never had.
I still cry. I try not to think about it,
I would give my life a hundred times over, to give him his.
Oh, God, how I wish I could have held you as a baby and in your teens.
I still cry. The pain I held so deep inside was way too much to bear,
Through Jesus Christ and Reconciliation, inner -peace was there.
But...
I still cry. I know one day I'll hold you tight and look into your eyes,
‘Til then, my son, I love you.
I still cry.
To my son, Christian....love, dad
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Jad Hunter

March 2000 - May 20th, 2000

I knew the rainy evening Jad was conceived we were going to have a baby.

I walked my fiancée to the door and kissed them both goodnight under a soft pale moon. There's no point here and now to reflect on those moments up until the abortion of our baby. Jad is not here, and that's all that matters. I will never hold him. I will never see what he looked like. I will never tickle his feet. I will never hear his laugh. I never be able to love him....Well, no that's not true. I do love him. I just will never be able to tell him and show him here on Earth...but someday, I still hope to find forgiveness for his Mother who did this without my knowledge. God knows how much I wanted Jad and how much I love him.... and that faith...will see me thru until the beautiful day I can tell Jad myself.
That's just pathetic, self pitying nonsense.



If a man wants children then let him find a willing partner. Women are not male property. Men do not get to dictate what happens in our bodies. Men who can't figure that out should not be allowed to have sex or breed.
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Old 05-29-2012, 09:59 PM
 
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That's just pathetic, self pitying nonsense.



If a man wants children then let him find a willing partner. Women are not male property. Men do not get to dictate what happens in our bodies. Men who can't figure that out should not be allowed to have sex or breed.
Seems both men wanted their child. The one man wasn't told his fiance was planing to abort. I agree men have a problem when they are not with the right woman. People need to take time before having sex but they won't. No self control.
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Old 05-30-2012, 12:56 AM
 
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Show me where they don't.
Men can get vasectomies on demand; women cannot.
Men can get implants; oh, and ED medications paid for by insurance.
Can women get reproductive medications paid for by insurance?
Well, the Catholics do support Viagra, but will not pay for women's contraceptives.

They are all for making sure you can have great sex and get pregnant. Not the opposite.

Why Catholic Groups' Health Plans Say No To Contraceptives, Yes To Viagra : Shots - Health Blog : NPR
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Old 05-30-2012, 02:07 AM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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Men should definitely have a say whether they want to be fathers or not. We live in a culture where men get all the responsibilities and no choices, but women have choices and no responsibilities.
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Old 05-30-2012, 02:28 AM
 
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Men should definitely have a say whether they want to be fathers or not.


when they are able to carry a fetus for 9 months and give birth, then they can have a say in it. Until then, nope. they have no say in the matter. They can be consulted for an opinion, but its still the woman's choice.
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Old 05-30-2012, 03:39 AM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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when they are able to carry a fetus for 9 months and give birth, then they can have a say in it. Until then, nope. they have no say in the matter. They can be consulted for an opinion, but its still the woman's choice.
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I could careless about "My body, my choice". That's feminist talk!

Last edited by West of Encino; 05-30-2012 at 04:12 AM..
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Old 05-30-2012, 03:45 AM
 
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What are you proposing:
That they chain the women up and not let them take control of their own lives and destiny?
Really, you promote slavery?
I could promote some chastity. Would you accept that?
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