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Old 02-27-2012, 06:45 PM
 
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I would argue that the equal protection clause of the 14th Amendment makes affirmative action unconstitutional.
Affirmative action in regards to dealing with sexism, in my case, came in the form of a tax deduction for my employer for stretching his imagination and taking a chance hiring me. He got dividends from his investment in me far beyond that tax deduction. I made him bucko bucks on the production line in large part because as female I could stand above the fray of off point male ego nonsense and cut to the quick. I facilitated smooth relations between mgmt and crew so well they spontaneously started sharing their lunch hour together. Oh that old black magic of feminine wiles. Bottom line: I never would have had the opportunity to prove myself if not for that incentive.

Those who believe affirmative action is free lunch- BS. I can assure you it's not when it's implemented properly. Had my employer incurred a loss as a result of taking a chance on me-- if I cost him more than I was producing-- he'd have no choice but to fire me. That's reality math. Not crony good old boy math that's been creeping like a choking moss into board rooms. He'd be right to fire me for lackluster performance. Simple as that. No whining.

No lawsuit was ever necessary, not even in military service, because a leader abusing their authority intrinsically loses the respect and loyalty of his entire crew. Including those witnessing his behavior from above. He shot himself in his own foot and the harder he came at me with BS the deeper the hole he dug for his own career because it hurt the whole unit. I had 40 witnesses on my side disagreeing with the marks he was giving me in front of his own chain of command. I debunked him with challenge exams applied to the whole unit and aced him at his own test. Looks to be I wasn't as addle brained/ untrainable as he tried to paint. Turns out the agenda he was serving had nothing to do with UCMJ. It wasn't easy, or pretty, but I got it done anyway. Thanks to principles & standards being upheld evenly. That's where people's loyalty belongs. Not in gender, race, creed, blah blah.

Once the doors of an industry were opened and I had a resume history in my hands, facts were facts beyond my gender. If a business put itself in the business of maintaining sexism, they're going to go out of business by their own hands because they're grievously off point from the true mission statement. They're squandering their own resources. I need only step out of their way and let them fall upon their own sword of stupidity and smirk on the sidelines of another company (not burdened with sexism) that was thriving.

Lessons learned for corporate America & US Military: Isms are exponentially unprofitable & harmful to espirt de corp. Self serving individuals in leadership positions are a recipe for doom in either endeavor.

 
Old 02-27-2012, 06:46 PM
 
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No implications here. Point is that whites do have the majority of the wealth in this society. How did they get it? Wealth is tied to land. How did the power structure gain control of the land?
Oh I see. I'm a thief because a couple hundred years ago some guy who happened to be white enslaved some other guy who happened to be black.

It turns out that my father actually didn't grow up dirt poor, it was all an illusion, perpetrated by Fox News, which actually existed ~50 years ago despite not existing. And my mother, despite not being born in America, is actually from America, and a descendant of wealthy slave owners.

Seek help.
 
Old 02-27-2012, 06:58 PM
 
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This is probably due to the fact that if fired, a white felon will not bring forth a frivolous lawsuit based on bogus claims racial discrimination. Too many black employees have cried wolf and now it's back firing in the form of liabilities.
So white people don't file frivolous lawsuits? Oh the comedy. The vast majority of frivolous and fraudulent lawsuits are filed by white people.
 
Old 02-27-2012, 07:03 PM
 
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Oh I see. I'm a thief because a couple hundred years ago some guy who happened to be white enslaved some other guy who happened to be black.

It turns out that my father actually didn't grow up dirt poor, it was all an illusion, perpetrated by Fox News, which actually existed ~50 years ago despite not existing. And my mother, despite not being born in America, is actually from America, and a descendant of wealthy slave owners.

Seek help.
I didn't call you anything. Seek education.
 
Old 02-27-2012, 07:07 PM
 
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I didn't call you anything. Seek education.
I am a taxpayer, with a proportion of wealth that according to you, I stole - I mean, have.
 
Old 02-27-2012, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Actually people years ago with no social programs , they had to work ,families worked together to keep the food on the table and the roof over their head... when asked a black pastor what happened to the strong families the blacks had in years past.. the black pastor answered.. welfare.

Today we have young kids on street corners taking drugs, drinking, and getting into trouble.. when the American family HAD to pull together because of hard times and to get ahead had to share in the work to do just that... today with welfare pulling the load , one has time and money for drugs, liquor, and too much time on their hands.
 
Old 02-27-2012, 07:35 PM
 
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Who is "WE"?

There are people (of all colors, race, creed etc) who uphold the principles that founded this nation, and there are others riding on the credit of others work not upholding anything at all but self interest and exploitation. This includes maladjusted blacks, maladjusted illegals, and maladjusted whites playing their crabs in a barrel nonsense games. They'd rather not be American and I think it more pragmatic we oblige them with eviction notices.
I agree that there are people who ruin it for everybody. At the same time, I'm glad that there are laws that protect people considering all the discrimination that actually goes on out there.

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I can't see how anybody could be enraged at a business owner hiring a white guy over a black guy if his experience has shown him the odds are better going with the white guy. People go into business to make money, not conduct social experiments. It takes money to train people, and as a manager if I had observed a 50% attrition rate among blacks vs a 20% rate among whites, well, I'm doing the smart thing and hiring white guys most of the time.
That's what makes business work, smart planning.
If I buy a Kia and the engine blows after 2 years, the buy a Volvo that lasts 10 yrs, you can bet my next car wouldn't be a kia, even if they had improved over that 10 year span. Why? Because I was conditioned to think Kias are unreliable, and will make a decision based on experience.
Probably don't want to see these things if you're not on the outside looking in, but its the truth and most people know it.
Bill Cosby nailed it and now the black folks hate him.
A lot of employers seem to take this stance, but there's a big problem with this logic; in places where one group of people is a serious minority, of course those statistics are going to be skewed.

Take where I live and work presently for example (north Colorado); there's a little of everybody but very few black people here. I presently work in retail where it's fairly easy to replace workers being that it's a job that demands less of a skill-set than other jobs. There is very high turnover where I work, of all kinds of people, but of all the seven black people I can remember them hiring, only one has lasted longer than a year (actually she's been there quite awhile), while the rest didn't last a year, and most didn't last six months. The neighborhood I lived in back in south Florida could've arguably been the opposite since there were more blacks, latinos and folks who were both than non-hispanic white people.

It is a natural human tendency to job-hop. A lot of people do it. However when a group is in the extreme minority, it's not hard to see why their entire group gets dragged down in reputation in the process. Is that really fair? Of course not. That's why I'm glad there are laws in place to protect people.
 
Old 02-27-2012, 07:36 PM
 
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Yes, it happened to me, too. Went into a place in the city to get lunch to take out at one of the hot/cold salad bars. I was the only white person, three or four black people there. Behind the counter was a black guy who wouldn't look at me, just rolled his eyes and waved over the black customers to get ahead of me. Also behind the counter was some poor little Asian girl who looked completely alarmed and kept looking at me with her eyes wide. He was SHOWING ME that I was to be punished for whatever some dead white person had done to HIS ancestors. I thought about dumping my food and walking out, but then decided to just stand there and stare at him for my own amusement. I AM a six-foot-one-inch-tall white woman, so I was his height. He finally took care of all his black customers, not one of whom mentioned that I was there before them, and then he rang me up with a few grunts, still not looking at me. I smiled sweetly and said, "Thank you!" just to burn his ass, stuffed my change into my pocket and left.

And then...I walked outside and down the sidewalk, my anger at this 100% prejudiced jerk starting to grow, when a black woman walking toward me said, "Excuse me--you've got a couple of dollar bills sticking out of your pocket. Better be careful--someone might see that and take your money."

And that served to remind me that people have to be taken as individuals. Black, white, whatever--some are azzhole's, most are not.
I too see people for their character. I have had blacks take my side regarding another black person who happened to be militant and hateful.

I have always went out of my way to be extra kind to any black person because I want to assure them I am not a racist. I will not address anyone who is hateful toward me, I just ignore them. I also realize it is the parents who teach a child to love or hate. But as they get older , it is they who choose to hate or love . One must come to the time of responsibility for their choices regardless of what they have been taught.
 
Old 02-27-2012, 08:04 PM
 
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Actually people years ago with no social programs , they had to work ,families worked together to keep the food on the table and the roof over their head... when asked a black pastor what happened to the strong families the blacks had in years past.. the black pastor answered.. welfare.

Today we have young kids on street corners taking drugs, drinking, and getting into trouble.. when the American family HAD to pull together because of hard times and to get ahead had to share in the work to do just that... today with welfare pulling the load , one has time and money for drugs, liquor, and too much time on their hands.

Wanted to say that this post doesn't make much sense to me. Years ago (only 40 years ago I might add) over half of the black population in this country lived in poverty and had high rates of infant mortality and infectious diseases, and generally weren't very healthy. My great grandmother had 14 children and only 4 of them survived past the age of 4. They were miners who made a few dollars a week and lived in horrible poverty. Welfare didn't make them destitute back then so the black pastor you spoke of, doesn't know what he is talking about.

Also about kids doing drugs and liquor with too much time on their hands, this can be seen in all corners of all demographics, not just black people.

Honestly these last few posts on this thread is why I said that black people are demonized. I could give you hundreds of stories, both personal and professional (I worked at a bank both in person and via the phone in the south and some of the explicitly racists things I was called and told about by white people are very shocking) but I do not see all white people like the nuts I spoke to at work or those who lived in my neighborhood (I lived in a very integrated poor neighborhood and we had some crazy doozy redneck, PWTs - poor white trash folks who lived near us who were the most ghetto low class, disgusting people I have ever met) but it is ridiculous to say "oh those whites like to let barn animals live in their house, you know those whites are dirty, nasty, despicable people like Betty and her husband Bubba and have 8 kids and let a pig sleep in their living room" that would be ridiculous and stereotyping all white people unfairly and unnecessarily since the large majority of white people do not live like this. This description is actually about some neighbors of mine when I was younger too BTW but I knew they were just loony just like I know that extremely ghetto crazy black people are loony and the majority of us are nothing like that.

It is too bad that so many of you like to generalize whole groups of people and believe the images you see in the media as a true representation of blacks in this country and around the world. Ignorance always makes me sad.

Also I think it is crazy to go out of one's way to be kind to someone just because they are black. IMO that is a character flaw. You should be kind to people just because you are a kind person. I am not nicer to white people than I am to black people or Asians or Latinos or anything. I am just respectful to everyone and see everyone as an individual worth of respect until they prove that they are a nut and then I just ignore them and not associate with them any more.
 
Old 02-27-2012, 11:35 PM
 
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Hell, as far as i'm concerned, white folks were our role models. Now they want to hand the job off to someone else since they don't like the outcome.

Whatever. I just laugh at this nonsense.
Busted! You admitted you're a dixiecrat!

Mimic knuckle dragging ignorant white thugs, expect a different outcome, and claim yourselves victims of all others who patently rejected the pathetic dixiecrat parade AGAIN. You're not fooling anyone. Not cons, not libs, not anyone in between. We all have your number long long ago. Even Obama.

Yuck it up pal. Speaking of detroit, poster child for abortion...

Man beats 2 year old in the grocery store - YouTube

Whitey made him do it? Blame the gubbermint? Blame his Mamma for saying yes to life? Which Mamma? The toddlers, or the juvenile delinquent thugs Mamma? When is it ever your own damned fault and not yo mamma's? If nothing a black man does is his responsibility, why aren't they neutered wholesale?

A story in Charleston WV will never be seen in the news because it was never reported to 911. An obnoxious wall of meat similar to the youtube creep stood on line at the local grocery store speaking so loudly that no one could hear the cashiers inches away. I turned around and (annoyed) asked him to keep his voice down and he bellowed out how dare I infringe upon his God given voice even louder. Then he got up in my face, stepping on another to do so, and bragged about his recent 20+ yr stint in prison. He was sure to let me know he wasn't intimidated by an old white lady, which announced to all he most certainly was. If he had dared break the plane of his arm I had it all mapped out which direction I'd be throwing him.

I got up in his face and let him know that while he was in prison black kids went to school and graduated with honors despite him. That a disabled black boy down the street, who'd give his eye teeth to be able bodied, learned a trade and was doing quite well for himself. That while he was perfecting his juvenile delinquency for 20 freaking years, a black man became President. That his trashy arse intimidating the black cashier and the other black ladies on line to the point of tears was NOT acceptable.

Knowing he was losing the argument, he ratcheted up and threatened violence. I smiled wide and scared the living crap out of him. He didn't know I was trained to shoot to kill. He didn't know I was armed. He didn't know I have multiple generations in LE in my family and veterans don't take kindly to veterans being abused. He didn't know he had just convicted his own parolee dumb ass in front of 30+ witnesses. When I clued him in (without unholstering) he ran away with his tail tucked like any other sniveling coward. Maybe he'll think better about bullying his way around in a free society he's rendered himself unfit to exist in. The black ladies burdened with idiots like these preying on their kids THANKED me. I escorted them to their cars because they were too scared to leave and F-troop old black boys couldn't be bothered. There's nothing free in it for them. POS is as POS does.

The rest of y'all (too many to count) who've got a problem with my intolerance of narcissistic BS running amok killing kids can kiss my ECRU ARSE. Y'all defend murders, child killers, wife beaters, and incredulously claim it to be black culture. You're sick. I'm old enough where I don't give a flying fig. I'd rather be dead than accept a minute of this crap. Well worth the one way ticket I'm already signed up for anyway.

You're not dealing with the sweet elderly black lady down the road whose famous last words while being stabbed to death by a demented 14 yr old black neighbor-- "Thomas, you're killing me." You're just as demented every moment you've denied the defense of the good in what ought to be the black community. But noooo. It's all about YOU. You're too busy denying her of the merest human dignity and blaming all others spewing BS on your retarded soapboxes masking your own failure. That's how I know beyond shadow of all doubt the ‘black community’ is at best a pack of selfish sniveling hyenas unworthy of that sweet old lady. Where is YOUR outrage at YOUR OWN behavior? Your OWN neglect. Your OWN failure to man up and do right? :::crickets:::

Go on and show me something different. Prove me wrong. Let's see this fictitious entity AKA 'black community' build something. Let me see healthy well adjusted kids come out of said fictitious entity 'black community'. Stable 20+ yr marriages. Put up or shut up. Because until then, it's the same old POS is as POS does. The only successful blacks (numerous examples) are the blacks who scrape the 'black community' off their shoes and integrate in main stream (WHITE ) society as any other HUMAN BEING does. The 'black community' is as retarded a family cactus as KKK's family cactus.

Truth hurts. I didn't make eunuchs out of these sorry excuses for males. Old white ladies have to fight your battles for you? Where's daddy when his overweight low esteem 9yr old daughter is tying up 911 because black boys are bullying her in the street? Where he put himself for decades. Masturbating on the corner with the other juvenile delinquents pontificating about 'the man'. Rebels without a clue because the enemy is in the mirror where it ever was. Punching at ghosts everywhere they go betrays the life they claim to want. Cling to a scapegoat and a 40 oz to maintain their own cowardice forever. Their own kids be damned. Ooopsie there goes another abortion. No one stole the control over yourselves that you abdicated. It's right there on the ground where you left it. PICK IT UP.

That career criminal is a waste of skin. I don't want to spend a dime paying a jailer to babysit him. He belongs summarily dumped in Afghanistan for abdicating his citizenship along with the rest of the lost boys you deny any and all responsibility for as a 'black community'. It's everything the 'black community' has earned.
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