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The real reason bisexual guys don't come out that much is that it creeps out girls when a guy is bisexual. Most girls who find that out will cease to think of that guy as a man so they keep it under wraps if they prefer women but also like men. Women aren't as closeted with that because more guys than not find it hot when a woman is bi.
Of course some people are "Try-Sexual" ... they are willing to try anything.
That may be the best one yet. Is that original or did you come up with that? I may have to steal that one.
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Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948
bek most of us think that our sex life is not something u should "come out" with.
it should be private.
Totally understandable for those who have come out in this thread that share the same opinion. Not everyone is comfortible talking about human sexuality. This thread is meant for those who are willing to talk openly about human sexuality.
I'm bisexual. In my experience alot of straight women don't understand bisexual males, and assume a bisexual male is probably gay and not worth their interest except as a friend. And alot of gay men don't accept bisexual males either as being anything but closeted gay men or liars. Society seems much more accepting of bisexual women, on the other hand.
You hear about coming out all the time in the Gay community and it is celibrated, but When a Bisexual comes out which isn't often they are looked at with disdain and suspician by many. Bi-sexual men are ostrocized by women as you see on this board?
In real life I know quite a few women that have had open Bisexual experiences or even indentify themselves as "Bi" but you rarely see anyone identifying themselves here as such?
This applies to Gays and Straight, as neither group seem 100% comfortable with Bi-sexual People.
not necessarily true of everyone but it seems to me most bi people have a preference for one sex but swing to the other side for sexual gratification. on dating sites like ok cupid damn near 40% of women are labeled as bi. i imagine these are women who will have a threesome, makeout with their friend drunk but probably woudln't be in an ltr with a women and probably plan on marrying a man.
I'm bisexual. In my experience alot of straight women don't understand bisexual males, and assume a bisexual male is probably gay and not worth their interest except as a friend. And alot of gay men don't accept bisexual males either as being anything but closeted gay men or liars. Society seems much more accepting of bisexual women, on the other hand.
My opinion of bi men as a straight women: they identify as bi only in regards to having an orgasm, and when it comes to actual relationships they arent bi at all, and only view one gender as relationship material. There is something really gross about defining yourself based on your orgasms, so that is why i don't care for them. In my lifetime i have probably met two dozen self-proclaimed bi men, but only two actually DATED both sexes. The others were all about getting off. As an aside, of those two bi men who dated, one is.still a good friend and the other I married and later divorced. (the divorce was unrelated to his past history of dating guys).
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i'm bisexual..there is said it.. i'm a girl though, however the best thing about being bisexual was i got to choose, and i have decided to only choose men from now on..however i always tell the people i date,in case they have a problem with it, but i'm not shouting it to like my mom or strangers.
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