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Do these people honestly think decent people would want them? A friend of mine was just approached at a store by a guy with three baby mamas! YUCK. I told one of them he was going to the hot place because of his immorality but he said he was opposed to marriage and these women should have known it.
You know OP, I usually tend to support you and your posts and you're free to have your preferences and date whoever you want but you can't control what type of man approaches you. Why do you think these dudes have all these kids by different women anyway? They could care less how you feel or what you want. You either have to learn to deal with it or never leave your house.
And why are you such a prize? I'm sure there are plenty of people out there that would think the exact same thing about you that you're thinking about these 'scummy' people.
But I'm not scum, I work, live a moral life and am not a drain on anyone. These people are scum because they are almost always a drain on both my taxes and morality.
FWIW, my dad has 5 kids by 3 different women. He's always been able to get women and has a girlfriend now. He had all his kids before he was married and has since been married twice (after all his kids were born from the 3 women).
He's a decent guy, just likes to sleep around and a lot of women like to sleep around too. Oh, and I'm black and am not on welfare and my dad paid child support for all his kids and we know him and spent time with him regularly.
Do these people honestly think decent people would want them? A friend of mine was just approached at a store by a guy with three baby mamas! YUCK. I told one of them he was going to the hot place because of his immorality but he said he was opposed to marriage and these women should have known it.
Yes, we all know a guy who has fathered three different children out of wedlock must be a real loser, only the poor, uneducated, moocher clas minorities do that....right?
They really are. The next person they sleep with may become another baby mama/daddy. This happened to a friend. She "dated" (in her mind but not mine)a guy with 4 kids by 4 different woman, none of whom he married. She had baby #5, ended up on welfare and he disappeared. So now we are paying for them. She is now pretty much ruined for a decent man.
(Or, they don't work at all, because they are a Maaaaaaaamma...with all those keeds) I concur with that opinion about restricting the payouts, btw. All of the parents who are self-supporting must make choices and deal with economic realities. Why should the Welfares be exempted? If these baby-mills are living on the public dole, they should have some restrictions placed on them, and they should get used to being told what they can do and when. If you want power and control, get out there and earn your own living. And stop demanding that the rest of society pay for crapas baby after crapas baby.
There is the Earned Income Credit too that they get also.
We need to limit these people from breeding and definitely keep them out of the dating pool. If I had a dating site I would not allow anyone who had more than one baby out of wedlock.
Well the dating site business is a different story. I would allow for profit.
They really are. The next person they sleep with may become another baby mama/daddy. This happened to a friend. She "dated" (in her mind but not mine)a guy with 4 kids by 4 different woman, none of whom he married. She had baby #5, ended up on welfare and he disappeared. So now we are paying for them. She is now pretty much ruined for a decent man.
How is the fault all his? She chose him with a track record like that. In the long run what did she expect? I agree that men that do this are scum, but women that put up with it are no better.
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