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View Poll Results: Could you forgive a pedophile?
Yes 76 24.28%
No 237 75.72%
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Old 05-03-2013, 05:10 PM
 
Location: TX
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Umm, is there any room on this thread for the suggestion that maybe - just maybe - some of the people who are convicted sex offenders... aren't actually sex offenders at all?

Or is that something we'd rather not think about?
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Old 05-03-2013, 05:36 PM
 
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Umm, is there any room on this thread for the suggestion that maybe - just maybe - some of the people who are convicted sex offenders... aren't actually sex offenders at all?

Or is that something we'd rather not think about?
The topic is not about "sex offenders" but specifically pedophiles. I agree about sex offenders. If an 18 year old has consentual sex with his 16 year old girlfriend, he should not be on a sex offender list for life. But I have no mercy for pedophiles.
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Old 05-03-2013, 05:44 PM
 
Location: TX
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The topic is not about "sex offenders" but specifically pedophiles. I agree about sex offenders. If an 18 year old has consentual sex with his 16 year old girlfriend, he should not be on a sex offender list for life. But I have no mercy for pedophiles.
Let me try this again.

Is it possible that maybe - just maybe - some of the people who are convicted child molesters didn't really do it?
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Old 05-03-2013, 06:16 PM
 
Location: Chambersburg PA
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Let me try this again.

Is it possible that maybe - just maybe - some of the people who are convicted child molesters didn't really do it?
Yes, and it's becoming even easier to be convicted with no actual evidence, just the testimony of the accuser, as statutes of limitations are lifted
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Old 05-03-2013, 06:22 PM
 
Location: OCEAN BREEZES AND VIEWS SAN CLEMENTE
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Yes, and it's becoming even easier to be convicted with no actual evidence, just the testimony of the accuser, as statutes of limitations are lifted

I agree with you. Too often a young man is convicted with no actual hard evidience. Watch out for a woman scorn.

Too many whacko women out there, who pull this crap, and the young man's life is forever changed.

Too often the nutcase accuser word is good for it and nothing more.
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Old 05-03-2013, 07:43 PM
 
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Very few pedophiles in our society are labeled as "sex offenders". Pedophiles choose and groom their victims, carefully making sure they will not be caught, and if they are, they try to make it seem justified.

How many years, decades, did Sandusky abuse young men? Penn State child sex abuse scandal - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia . He felt beyond being called out, as he had abused boys for so many years with no ramifications.

Look at the scandal in the Catholic religion, where pedophiles were caught,, "repented", and were transfereed to a new area.

Pedophiles exist in our society, and prey on the most trusting, children. Sociopath pedophiles plan their seduction, that is part of the thrill for these perverts.

Don't twist this discussion about pedophiles, into an agenda about sex offenders, a completely different topic.
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Old 05-03-2013, 08:03 PM
 
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In time they will be celebrated when they "come out". It might take another 20 years....but it's going to happen.
Who will be celebrated when they "come out?" Come out of where? Who? I sure hope you're not making any reference at all to gays by that, given that practically ALL PEDOPHILES ARE HETEROSEXUAL MALES.
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Old 05-03-2013, 08:04 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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People who prey on children have a special corner in hell waiting for them.
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Old 05-03-2013, 08:08 PM
 
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Let me try this again.

Is it possible that maybe - just maybe - some of the people who are convicted child molesters didn't really do it?
No doubt about it. There are some innocents that end up being charged for things they didn't do. For ex., there have been people who were serving on death row, and were exonerated. However, of the total, the ones found to be on death row wrongly were still few. Few is too many, but it is still few.

Now, what was the point you were trying to make?
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Old 05-03-2013, 09:41 PM
 
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Makes sense that pedophiles would be psychopaths.

It's a shame people aren't born with an empathy rating tattooed on their forehead. Of course, if that were the case we'd have too few CEOs, too few military leaders, too few a-holes telling everyone else how to live, too few Republicans, too few criminals and thugs, too few abusive husbands, too few serial killers, and few religious leaders, because all those with a significantly low empathy scale rating would've had their sociopathic @#$ kicked long ago, been sent away to a prison island, and no one would have a thing to do with them.
That empathy rating would be great. It's scary to think about how many people who have real power, and receive respect in our country have no empathy, and simply don't care about the problems and pain they create for others.
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