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Old 12-12-2012, 02:29 PM
 
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If I saw that I'd be painfully uncomfortable over viewing such a sad family event and would stay the heck out of it as it's none of my business.

My black friend and his asian wife had to go through this to some extent from BOTH sides of the family.
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Old 12-12-2012, 02:33 PM
 
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I would not do that.

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I think it's bad taste to discriminate on basis of race. The father could have said anything about the kid, like he doesn't make enough money, or any other excuse.
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Old 12-12-2012, 02:34 PM
 
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It's not really a big deal. I have dated women who are not the same race as myself.
Yeah, the whole "oooh look a mixed race couple" is sooooo 1970-80's.

Just look at Kardashian and Kanye hooking up. The only buzz about that was that they are both buttheads, no one is muttering about race there.
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Old 12-12-2012, 02:44 PM
 
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Sentence him to watch Guess Who's Coming To Dinner a dozen times.
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Old 12-12-2012, 02:46 PM
 
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Yeah, the whole "oooh look a mixed race couple" is sooooo 1970-80's.

Just look at Kardashian and Kanye hooking up. The only buzz about that was that they are both buttheads, no one is muttering about race there.
Kim is Armenian not white. Usually people have a problem with it when it's white and black. Other combinations seem to be ok for some reason.
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Old 12-12-2012, 02:52 PM
 
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This was a interesting scenario that was put to the test at a restaurant. Watch the results of what happens and post comments.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?featur...&v=striKP3A84w
I'm not sure that this showed anything significant other than that they found a couple women who don't approve of interracial relationships. Neither person said anything against black people. They spoke against interracial relationships. They didn't say that blacks "aren't good enough" to be with whites.

If you want to show racism then show racism. But in a culture that has affirmative action, black history month, kwanza, etc you can't then turn around and try to ding someone for not being colorblind. You can't encourage black people to have a separate identity and culture and then complain when someone recognizes that they are black. You can complain if the person said the black person is lesser than the white person, but that didn't happen.

What they should have done is try to catch an employer refusing to treat black and white candidates as equal or something of that nature. But saying blacks should be with blacks and whites should be with whites without any value judgements doesn't prove bigotry.
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Old 12-12-2012, 03:03 PM
 
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Kim is Armenian not white.

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Old 12-12-2012, 03:06 PM
 
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They didn't say that blacks "aren't good enough" to be with whites.
They didn't? I think you'll have to listen again. The older women clearly states to the father "seeing it made me cry, to think a pretty girl like her would pick something like that" and "I looked at them and thought, you're beautiful, why do you have to choose that?" I think her referring to the white girl as "beautiful" and the black guy as "that" clearly shows it has to do with more than her just being against interracial relationships.
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Old 12-12-2012, 03:19 PM
 
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Kim is Armenian not white.
Sweet, next time someone asks my ethnicity I will say Illinoisian.
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Old 12-12-2012, 03:27 PM
 
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I have a son who dated a black girl for years. I had no problem with it, and her parents had no problems with my son. They eventually broke up, but that's what happens with kids. They are still friends, years later.

People are people. If you just accept them as people, race doesn't matter pretty quickly. Folks get used to the differences fast. I know several white families who have adopted black kids, and a couple of black families who have adopted white kids. It's only a big deal when someone thinks it is.

And the last I heard, Armenians are considered to be white, just like Mexicans and Italians and Greeks. We are all just various shades of tan.
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