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Old 03-21-2013, 10:52 PM
 
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And you define masculinity as ... committing sexual assault.

Got it.

That may be how it is where you say you come from, but this is the US. No crime in the world defines masculinity here in our country. A crime is a crime, and I'm sure all the conservatives on this board will join me in saying that men have to take personal responsibility for their crimes, not blame the victim for THEIR actions and not blame their chromosomes.
Yes I'd join you in saying that. Where I'd part ways with you is that I'd go on to say the same thing of women.
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Old 03-22-2013, 12:09 AM
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Location: Pine Grove,AL
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You can not be fully masculine without being attracted to women. And yes all heterosexual men talk this way.

Masculine traits: Be protective, be possessive (what feminists term objectify). Feminine traits: be protected, be submissive.
But you were not talking about simply being attracted to women, you comments go about 5 steps further than that.
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Old 03-22-2013, 12:13 AM
 
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This is why I don't take Republicans seriously. These are the same people who say that a woman should lay back and enjoy rape, yet use rape as a wedge issue.
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Old 03-22-2013, 12:15 AM
 
Location: somewhere in the woods
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This is why I don't take Republicans seriously. These are the same people who say that a woman should lay back and enjoy rape, yet use rape as a wedge issue.


seems to me that democrats and liberals dont want a woman to protect themselves from the rapist.

it is still bad logic to suggest to a woman to lay down and take the rape rather than shoot your rapist 3-4 time in the chest.
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Old 03-22-2013, 12:35 AM
 
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I'm sitting here shaking my head, and at a loss for words....
SERIOUSLY??????????

next time, I see a criminal commiting a crime, I'm going to run up to him and firmly say...
"NOW YOU STOP THAT!" yeah right????
I'm not sure how familiar some of you are with Dora the Explorer, but this post reminded me of it. LOL You can't tell a criminal to stop and it'll just happen like it does on Dora..


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Really? Beautiful women have attained everything just with what's in between their legs. Does me saying opportunist work better? Girls definitely know they can get what they want by giving a guy what he wants sexually. One time a college professor of mine got off subject and spoke about how the car he bought his wife was the most expensive blowjob he'd ever gotten. I guess I'm saying...if women wanted to, they could control most men with sex. I know more guys "whipped" and controlled by girls than I've EVER seen men control the relationship. I was one of them until I said enough is enough.
Sort of agreed; some men can have sexual relations with a woman without ever becoming whipped nor giving into what a female wants. Personally, if my girl friend wants something (which she never does, it was the hardest thing just to find her something for Valentines Day) she can get it with no hesitation or sexual activity.
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Old 03-22-2013, 07:00 AM
 
Location: 9851 Meadowglen Lane, Apt 42, Houston Texas
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Interesting take on things. Hmmm. I am quite male, I assure, you. But submissiveness is not a trait I look for in a female companion. I am not an alpha dog, per se. I have no problem taking charge of things, when appropriate that I do so. But never do I look for submissiveness from my lady. There are many tbings I have no problem defering to her on. On other things she defers to me.
By 'submissive' I mean a man who wants his woman to be all about him. It's hard to explain, it doesn't have to be the literal: she does everything I tell her to do. But there is a term women use for men: 'sweep me off my feet' which pretty much says it all. A typical man romanticizes about picking up a woman and having her melt in his arms while a typical woman envisions being picking up by a man (possessed) and walked away with. In the bedroom, women often have submissive positions and men take dominant positions. It's only through 'role play' that these things change. When a spouse gets caught cheating, women are more forgiving than men. Etc
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Old 03-22-2013, 07:01 AM
 
Location: 9851 Meadowglen Lane, Apt 42, Houston Texas
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Really? Beautiful women have attained everything just with what's in between their legs. Does me saying opportunist work better? Girls definitely know they can get what they want by giving a guy what he wants sexually. One time a college professor of mine got off subject and spoke about how the car he bought his wife was the most expensive blowjob he'd ever gotten. I guess I'm saying...if women wanted to, they could control most men with sex. I know more guys "whipped" and controlled by girls than I've EVER seen men control the relationship. I was one of them until I said enough is enough.
Again, not at all. You confuse what these beautiful women are doing. Think of them like beautiful cars. Men might compete with other men over owning that beautiful car. But in the end, the men want to own that car, not take directions from it. Look at this way, all power women have in this society is given to them by men, and they're protected in their rights by men.
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Old 03-22-2013, 07:42 AM
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Location: Pine Grove,AL
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seems to me that democrats and liberals dont want a woman to protect themselves from the rapist.

it is still bad logic to suggest to a woman to lay down and take the rape rather than shoot your rapist 3-4 time in the chest.
Well then lets correct that though now.

Democrats do not say women should not protect themselves, we are saying there should not be a need for them to. No one should live in fear of rape.
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Old 03-22-2013, 08:02 AM
 
Location: 9851 Meadowglen Lane, Apt 42, Houston Texas
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we are saying there should not be a need for them to. No one should live in fear of rape.
Your living in a dream world if you believe this.
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Old 03-22-2013, 09:26 AM
 
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Your living in a dream world if you believe this.
I second that. You're never going to stop rape. I'll 100% guarantee that no preventative measure will keep a woman completely save. I guess that's the problem. There's people that really think its possible. I mean there are still some women that rape. That hasn't been stopped and you think it's possibly someday for women to live without the fear of rape. Keep dreaming.
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