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Why is someone, who is not a Black woman, so concerned about who is or is not attracted to Black women? It is just so odd for a person to be so heavily invested in the lives of Black women when it has nothing to do with them personally. Very odd.
Why is someone, who is not a Black woman, so concerned about who is or is not attracted to Black women? It is just so odd for a person to be so heavily invested in the lives of Black women when it has nothing to do with them personally. Very odd.
Why is someone, who is not a Black woman, so concerned about who is or is not attracted to Black women? It is just so odd for a person to be so heavily invested in the lives of Black women when it has nothing to do with them personally. Very odd.
He's race baiting. Ignore him and he will go away.
Much like someone would do children with a dinner bell. Make sense? Good. Today's english lesson is finished.
A sensible person would simply admit that they used the word improperly and move on.
in·voke (n-vk) tr.v.in·voked, in·vok·ing, in·vokes1. To call on (a higher power) for assistance, support, or inspiration: "Stretching out her hands she had the air of a Greek woman who invoked a deity" (Ford Madox Ford). 2. To appeal to or cite in support or justification. 3. To call for earnestly; solicit: invoked the help of a passing motorist. 4. To summon with incantations; conjure.
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/ɪnˈvoʊk/ Show Spelled [in-vohk] Show IPA verb (used with object), in·voked, in·vok·ing. 1. to call for with earnest desire; make supplication or pray for: to invoke God's mercy.
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3. to declare to be binding or in effect: to invoke the law; to invoke a veto.
I think that if it wasn't for family members & others in society's (possible) negative feelings, opinions & comments, that more white men would date/marry black women. But because white men don't want to look "bad" in the eyes of their parents, other relatives, maybe coworkers, & strangers in society, meaning being stared at, talked about behind their back, thought of in a different light, possibly have biracial children, etc., they tend to stay away & not date/marry black women.
Many parents today still are willing to disown their kids if they date/marry the "wrong" race person, which is a real shame! TONS & TONS of black men date/marry white women, so why not a lot more white male/black female relationships?
And please, no one say anything to cause this thread to be closed. (And please, no one think I'm trying to be racist...I'm a biracial person myself.)
Actually the reason I normally don't date black women is because
1. I find a lot of black women to not be very pretty. I like women to look cute, and only a few black women look cute.
2. The personality does not match. I would like to date someone who likes to talk about politics, and likes to travel and hike in the mountains.
3. I am a conservative, so I rather want someone who is conservative as well. Most black women are to the left.
4. It is also important that she doesn't cause too much drama, understands when I get hurt and is easy going.
Pretty much with those 4 requirements leads to very few black women left, hence I have never dated a black woman. But I still date interracially. I have met many Indian, and Asian women who do share my views.
I think that if it wasn't for family members & others in society's (possible) negative feelings, opinions & comments, that more white men would date/marry black women. But because white men don't want to look "bad" in the eyes of their parents, other relatives, maybe coworkers, & strangers in society, meaning being stared at, talked about behind their back, thought of in a different light, possibly have biracial children, etc., they tend to stay away & not date/marry black women.
Many parents today still are willing to disown their kids if they date/marry the "wrong" race person, which is a real shame! TONS & TONS of black men date/marry white women, so why not a lot more white male/black female relationships?
And please, no one say anything to cause this thread to be closed. (And please, no one think I'm trying to be racist...I'm a biracial person myself.)
Back on topic....
There are a lot of negative (and erroneous) stereotypes that persist in relation to Black women that are an obstacle to be sure but often times Black women are also not receptive to non-Black men romantically. Many great guys are passed over or not given an opportunity by Black women because of misconceptions about the motivations of non-BM in pursuing Black women.
Actually the reason I normally don't date black women is because
1. I find a lot of black women to not be very pretty. I like women to look cute, and only a few black women look cute.
2. The personality does not match. I would like to date someone who likes to talk about politics, and likes to travel and hike in the mountains.
3. I am a conservative, so I rather want someone who is conservative as well. Most black women are to the left.
4. It is also important that she doesn't cause too much drama, understands when I get hurt and is easy going.
Pretty much with those 4 requirements leads to very few black women left, hence I have never dated a black woman. But I still date interracially. I have met many Indian, and Asian women who do share my views.
Wow, I had no idea that you could just look at someone and determine their personality based on ethnicity. Why are the Chinese people bothering with the birth year symbols to determine personality traits, they must be crazy.
I don't understand having a problem with interracial dating in general, but I really don't understand not approving of whites and blacks getting together. I mean, it's not like there are that many cultural differences you can count on making things difficult in the relationship. Yes, one could stereotype whites and blacks in order to argue otherwise. But I'm a white guy who's dated black women. I'm now married to a Hispanic woman and let me tell you, there are far more cultural differences between Hispanic families and white families (typically). Same goes for whites getting with Asians. You are much more likely to encounter cultural differences. Yet I've never heard of this being frowned upon, though I'm sure it is to a certain degree. Now, obviously, I'm not saying whites shouldn't be getting with Hispanics or Asian Americans either. But we've all heard that blacks and whites getting together is so controversial, and I really don't see why. There are no two races that match one another better in terms of culture/values in the U.S. than white people and black people.
But I guess all this really shows is that Americans care more about looks than anything else. The amount of difference in skin pigmentation = all that counts.
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