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Likely they whine because they don't want their child treated badly and they don't understand how a father could have a partner who treats his child badly. Her having another guy is irrelevant unless that guy treats the kids badly and that doesn't seem to be the case going by your statement noting only the dad's new gal is mistreating the kid.
Perhaps the ex should get to decide because there are other ways to harm a child than physical such as emotional, verbal, and psychological. So it seems not only do you not care to financially support your kids you'll allow your partner to treat them anyway as long as they don't put their hands on them? You seemingly epitomize my opinion on males.
I have seen many cases where the mom has alot of options and the dad does not so just takes what he can get. Thats just life.
I didn't go to insults. Stating I find his mother's actions more important as it seems his father's actions weren't effective isn't an insult when asked whose actions I find more important.
And you based that off your extensive knowledge of my personal life......
The only thing that bums me out about this whole thread is that Slate is getting a lot of publicity and advertising money for it. Did I not know better and were I not a religious man I would start my own version of Slate geared towards disaffected men. I would pad it with a bunch of research articles which I know have questionable methodology like Slate. I would make it seem mainstream like Slate by calling it a media outlet. I would make a killing out of advertising. It's the perfect business very little overhead (they don't even publish on paper), no oversight. But alas I'm afraid God would toss me into hell after I died for doing so because I know better. That's all the bums me out. I know there is a demand for it but no, I fear my eternal soul and I know better.
You didnt answer anything. You just seem to subscribe to the "oops its not my fault because" theory. Use a pill. Make him wear a condom. The chances of them both failing is so low theyd both have to be expired during her most fertile days. If you use expired birthcontrol you deserve what you get for being careless
And having a mother negates all father figures. Kids without fathers are far more likely to end up in prison or on drugs. Stats show this. And being a mom doesnt make you a good one. Child death stats also prove that. Kids need fathers. The biological father especially. The biggest contributers of child abuse are the bio mothers or her boyfriend/childs step-dad.
Likely the kids without fathers are more likely to end up in prison or on drugs not because they don't have a father figure but because single mothers generally tend to be low-income or lacking funds. Drugs and prison seems to be quite a tendency in this income bracket. So it seems more like kids need cash not fathers as having/being a father doesn't make you a good one. Likely the biggest contributors of child abuse are the bio mothers because there are more single mothers than fathers so again it's telling how despite this the statistics I've seen show the biggest contributors of sexual child abuse are the bio fathers.
And you based that off your extensive knowledge of my personal life......
I base that off your postings hence the keyword: seems...... You do have adequate reading comprehension to differentiate between a claim and a perception correct?
I didn't go to insults. Stating I find his mother's actions more important as it seems his father's actions weren't effective isn't an insult when asked whose actions I find more important.
You talked about his mothers mistakes. How is it not? Its his personal life. You are backpedaling from an insult
You didnt answer anything. You just seem to subscribe to the "oops its not my fault because" theory. Use a pill. Make him wear a condom. The chances of them both failing is so low theyd both have to be expired during her most fertile days. If you use expired birthcontrol you deserve what you get for being careless
I didn't see a need to answer anything. Your post was so completely ignorant that I simply had to comment on it. Go on back and read what you wrote. Go on.
You talked about his mothers mistakes. How is it not? Its his personal life. You are backpedaling from an insult
I didn't talk about his mothers mistakes...show me where I talked about his mothers mistakes. Quite curious as to your support considering I stated I find her actions more important unlike his fathers.
I'm not backpedaling. I was asked to judge something and I did. Just because you don't like what is said doesn't necessarily make it an insult. You are aware that talking about mistakes when judging something doesn't automatically equate to an insult correct? If you ask how you did on a test and your teacher stated you got (insert number) wrong that isn't necessarily an insult.
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