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I grew up in a pretty well-off family in the middle of a city. I'm slightly left-of-center, educated, work hard, and prefer city life though I currently am bored out of my mind living in the 'burbs. I am a 35-year-old agnostic who is married with no intention of having kids - just not my thing. The suburbs seem to just shut down after dinnertime - not a ton of entertainment options out here. Also everything out here is very "kid" oriented...I don't have anything against that, but it's kind of a drag for us folk with no interest in kids.
I couldn't do the rural thing. Walkability is very important to me...my wife and I try to walk to a lot of places (dinners out, entertainment, etc.). It's a bit tougher in the 'burbs but not completely impossible where we live.
It is an enduring stereotype – conservatives prefer suburban McMansions while liberals like urban enclaves – but one that is grounded in reality. Given the choice, three-quarters (75%) of consistent conservatives say they would opt to live in a community where “the houses are larger and farther apart, but schools, stores and restaurants are several miles away,” and just 22% say they’d choose to live where “the houses are smaller and closer to each other, but schools, stores and restaurants are within walking distance.” The preferences of consistent liberals are almost the exact inverse, with 77% preferring the smaller house closer to amenities, and just 21% opting for more square footage farther away.
What about those that want a home in the country large enough to meet their needs and no larger since it would be a waste and more to maintain, and want to be as far away from the other two as possible
I like our smallish house and semi smallish yard. Newer homes have about the same size lot but a much bigger house. Don't these people garden? Its not just having a big lawn, you can landscape your yard with trees and shrubs that attract wildlife and also have room to grow vegetables and have a little privacy. I've done some walking through suburbs and they have open green space surrounding drainage and water retention areas. Its nice. No stores or bars or restaurants within walking distance, but why would you want a business like that in your neighborhood, particularly if you'd have to live next to them? Eat at home or go out and drive 10 minutes. Whats wrong with staying home anyway?
If the suburb life isn't for you, you can go urban or rural. Urban gives you walking distance to small stores and eateries but you'll still have to drive or take a bus to the big box stores or malls. Lots of noise and neighbors bumping into you and parking can be a pain. If you go rural you have no neighbors but you will drive farther for goods and services. None are perfect and each appeals to different people.
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