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Why this problem persist is because the voters and tax payers let it and then like other big problems they go on for so long it makes it harder to solve. We end up like today with bunch of mounting issues with no easy solutions. There is no political will from either side to address this, from the right you have pro lifers that rail against the welfare state. On the other you have the left and that is a good portion of their constituents.
Take for example on one my ideas that I have had since the 90s, to be eligible for public assistance a woman has to agree to some form of B/C. If a woman starts out with 2 kids the state will not pay for her to have another nor support it. I know this sounds mean but the alternative is what we have now where the under class is breeding like rabbits with no responsibility.
Almost half of live births are paid by Medicaid what is the U S going to do when that number hits 60% ? I know my idea will never see the light of day and this problem will continue after I am dead. Democracy is un capable of solving big problems so Idiocracy will be our future.
My boyfriend, hopefully life long partner, and I plan to adopt several kids. The religious fanatics keep passing laws banning us from adopting, though.
Many of the people you referenced in your opening post won't give their babies up for adoption as long as society financially supports them.
Please try to use it in context with what I'm saying. In this instance, it's not used as a slur for straight people. In this instance, I'm using it to convey about people who breed just for the sake of breeding with absolutely no plan or means of support for the resulting babies.
And why do straight people get offended by that word? Babies are god's gift to you guys. And babies are something we could never have. So, stop getting all hung up on a word. Focus on the overall message in my OP.
That's so gay.
I'm the most pro-gay straight guy you will ever find and frankly, I think you need to reconsider your position.
Breeder has a negative connotation. It just does.
I hear your overall point, I don't think you are anti-straight or whatever and take no offense, just that your message can be cleaner without the word to distract some.
All the best.
Let me end this with a smile for you, my buddy and I were probably the only straight guys at the gym we went to in Chicago (north side, boystown.) His brother was gay and I never gave a crap about anybodys sexual orientation so we went there, showered, dressed...didn't give a crap.
I missed a bit of gym time and my buddy comes home and is like "wow, I worked out with this other guy today and I was getting dirty looks"....we figured that the regulars thought he might be cheating on me while I was away.
Please try to use it in context with what I'm saying. In this instance, it's not used as a slur for straight people. In this instance, I'm using it to convey about people who breed just for the sake of breeding with absolutely no plan or means of support for the resulting babies.
And why do straight people get offended by that word? Babies are god's gift to you guys. And babies are something we could never have. So, stop getting all hung up on a word. Focus on the overall message in my OP.
Breeders
Slang term used by people of homosexual persuasion to refer to heterosexual couples, who have a significantly higher risk of contributing to the population increase than the homosexuals do.
"Can you believe the nerve of those breeders? They come in to a nice restaurant and proceed to sit by and watch while their progeny shriek and run all over the place, and then let the children make a huge mess and do not even tip the waitstaff. Disgusting..."
And from queerty.com .. a Gay website:
Breeder: This term just grosses me out. It makes me think of a farmer inseminating cows.
Blech.
Plus, I don’t think straight people like it much. (It might be OK as an insult if used very infrequently and on people who deserve it.)
English is my 2nd language. I welcome any correction you have
Ah, I see.
Well, the term "baby daddy" is a slang term used mostly by the poor and uneducated. Using it will legitimize it, and will only contribute to the dumbing down of soceity that you said you fear in your original post.
This is why we need to make welfare temporary.If these losers wouldn't get all these freebies they would stop breeding. They are no better than insects. Yes in many years Idiocracy will be the land.
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