Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Politics and Other Controversies
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
 
Old 10-04-2015, 08:34 PM
 
1,559 posts, read 2,369,464 times
Reputation: 2341

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by green_mariner View Post
One reason I recommend that everyone control themselves. Out of wedlock births are a result of men and women not controlling their loins, and picking crappy partners.
Nope, they are purposely having babies and choose to not legally marry to reap the gov't benefits. I see this all the time. Several in my family, actually.

 
Old 10-04-2015, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Living rent free in your head
42,838 posts, read 26,231,005 times
Reputation: 34038
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheMoreYouKnow View Post
In most cases, the child becomes income. More children = more mailbox money.
yeah baby that's the way to get rich..go on welfare and have more kids! The average cash grant for a family of three is $375 a month with $80 for an additional child...except for MFG states where additional children do not increase the grant
 
Old 10-04-2015, 09:03 PM
 
26,773 posts, read 22,518,410 times
Reputation: 10037
Quote:
Originally Posted by green_mariner View Post
The consequences are still the same. Can THAT be refuted?
What "consequences?"
Of course consequences are different for man and for woman in this case ( for the most part.)
 
Old 10-04-2015, 09:07 PM
 
26,773 posts, read 22,518,410 times
Reputation: 10037
Quote:
Originally Posted by 2sleepy View Post
yeah baby that's the way to get rich..go on welfare and have more kids! The average cash grant for a family of three is $375 a month with $80 for an additional child...except for MFG states where additional children do not increase the grant
They still think in terms of what it USED to be. Like twenty years ago or so.
BEFORE Clinton's welfare reforms, and before America became a Wal-Mart nation.
People are clueless, it's all hear-say, yet they pass it for a fact.
 
Old 10-04-2015, 09:10 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
9,701 posts, read 5,108,949 times
Reputation: 4270
Quote:
Originally Posted by Wartrace View Post
I think most people don't have a "problem" with the race of the child or the marital status of the couple. It only becomes a problem for me when taxpayers are forced to pay for the child.
What if the mother wanted it aborted so that wouldn't be problem?
 
Old 10-05-2015, 05:19 AM
 
72,971 posts, read 62,547,130 times
Reputation: 21871
Quote:
Originally Posted by california-jewel View Post
You are correct in stating so. Race should not be the issue. but being inmature and ignorant in the moment.

It is living in the moment, and not thinking about the future and what it might look like. Not having control and this is a lot of the problem.

No child has a chance with two losers for Parents, no matter the race.
And we can start with the prisons. That is one place to find people who had losers for parents.
 
Old 10-05-2015, 05:21 AM
 
20,948 posts, read 19,041,277 times
Reputation: 10270
Cool!
 
Old 10-05-2015, 05:23 AM
 
72,971 posts, read 62,547,130 times
Reputation: 21871
Quote:
Originally Posted by Supachai View Post
90 percent of Black men are not even involved in their children's lives and 88 percent don't support their children financially. It's your assertion that women should be more selective about who they have sex with, which I agree with. And if they are being selective they should think twice about dating a Black man. They only have 1 in 10 odds that a Black man will even stick around after he knocks them up. Women should know these facts, because it's hard to make good choices when they are ignorant of the truth.
Prove that 90% of Black men are not in their children's lives. I have not seen a single stat proving such.
 
Old 10-05-2015, 05:24 AM
 
72,971 posts, read 62,547,130 times
Reputation: 21871
Quote:
Originally Posted by erasure View Post
What "consequences?"
Of course consequences are different for man and for woman in this case ( for the most part.)
Pick a lousy man to lay down with and out of wedlock children are very likely.
 
Old 10-05-2015, 06:08 AM
 
72,971 posts, read 62,547,130 times
Reputation: 21871
I am finding something very disingenuous. We're talking about the biracial kids born out of wedlock to Black men. What about the Black kids born out of wedlock to both a Black mother and father?
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.



All times are GMT -6. The time now is 07:52 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top