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Originally Posted by NCN
I may be wrong but I don't think I am. My bet is that the biggest holdup to improving oneself in the slums is not what outsiders say about a child but the lack of acceptance from ones peers when one starts to improve. These are the children who end up being beat up and bullied. There needs to be a neighborhood attitude change.
I know a person who was basically kicked out of a majorly black school as principal. I read in the newspaper one black school board member said that this person needed to learn how to be a principal to black children as if there were a difference between black and white children. I knew this person enough to know she did not make a difference between races of people. She was running her school to the betterment of all the children. He did a disservice to every child in that school. She was later found to be the best principal in her state after she moved on up to better circumstances in her field. There is now a "Dr." in front of her name. The school board trying to cuddle his little black children and make sure they feel good about themselves without putting forth any effort and living off the rest of us is still just as ignorant as he has always been.
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On the bold, since the 1980s when a majority of blacks lived in inner city ghettos (created due to institutional racism) more black people have become educated and have "escaped" slums than ever before.
I am living proof of this, as is a majority of the black kids I went to school with and graduated with from high school.
All kids have the potential to get bullied and it is a myth that black kids are bullied by other black kids only due to being smart. I was VERY smart (and very vain about my intelligence lol, still am) but I also was a "hood" kid. It is always funny to me that people who are either not black or who don't live in the hood want to say that smart black ghetto kids get bullied. I was never bullied because I was a "hood" kid and I would kick someone's a$$ if they bullied me lol. That is what "hood kids" do when they are bullied for the most part.
Also, I went to schools that had a high degree of poor white kids at school. Smart white kids were bullied much more atrociously by other white kids than anything I endured. I "protected" my smart white and Asian friends (the hispanics had huge families, who like mine had some "street cred" and they also, when they were smart, were not likely to be bullied). Most "smart" kids were bullied in the past. IMO bullying is less likely to occur today anyway.
On your principal friend, I'd wonder the reasons why the principal was looked at poorly. I do feel that many educators and administrators have some racial bias against black children and you really wouldn't know the circumstances if you didn't attend the meetings and know what was going on in the school.