Men don't know how to court women anymore? Why are so many sexually harassing women? (examples, percentage)

[nmnita]

Originally Posted by GotHereQuickAsICould

What is it you're inadvertently doing?

probably nothing: some women have very vivid imaginations.

[No_Recess]

Originally Posted by MetroWord

I should add that the two guys knew I was gay without me telling them. They told me it was because I always use gender neutral terms.

In an effort to be a kinder person I'm going to leave this alone and let you off with a warning:

If you ever toss a softball line out like this again I'm going to post a Top Ten list of jokes at your expense.

[ottomobeale]

Originally Posted by knowledgeiskey

What happened to just being nice and courteous? It's not hard to meet women without them being uncomfortable?

Nice guys get less sex than bad boys and players. Simple reward response.

In college I roomed with a bad boy player. I know another player now. Their pull is stunning.

You dont have to like the answer but its basic reward response.

[MetroWord]

Originally Posted by No_Recess

In an effort to be a kinder person I'm going to leave this alone and let you off with a warning:

If you ever toss a softball line out like this again I'm going to post a Top Ten list of jokes at your expense.

Huh? Mind explaining the joke?

[No_Recess]

Originally Posted by ottomobeale

Nice guys get less sex than bad boys and players. Simple reward response.

In college I roomed with a bad boy player. I know another player now. Their pull is stunning.

You dont have to like the answer but its basic reward response.

Agreed.

Hence your title.

[Catgirl64]

Originally Posted by knowledgeiskey

What happened to just being nice and courteous? It's not hard to meet women without them being uncomfortable?

My short answer would be this, and I know it's a generalization:

Men who harass women aren't trying to court them. They don't see their victims as potential girlfriends or wives. They see them either as a professional threat, or as a piece of *** who can be bullied into a sexual encounter. It's miles away from real courtship, and I think with a few - very few - exceptions, the men who do it know that.

[MetroWord]

Originally Posted by ottomobeale

Nice guys get less sex than bad boys and players. Simple reward response.

In college I roomed with a bad boy player. I know another player now. Their pull is stunning.

You dont have to like the answer but its basic reward response.

Speaking from an outsider perspective, I have observed this as well.

[No_Recess]

Originally Posted by MetroWord

Huh? Mind explaining the joke?

Just picking on you for using "gender neutral" pronouns.

[GotHereQuickAsICould]

Originally Posted by ottomobeale

Nice guys get less sex than bad boys and players. Simple reward response.

In college I roomed with a bad boy player. I know another player now. Their pull is stunning.

You dont have to like the answer but its basic reward response.

I wonder if those stats hold over the long term.

I know a lot of nice guys that are still having sex on a regular basis.

How are the bad boys doing?

[Brave New World]

Originally Posted by knowledgeiskey

What happened to just being nice and courteous? It's not hard to meet women without them being uncomfortable?

Wouldn't this be better in some Relationships Section rather than the Politics and Other Controversies section of this forum.?