Caring behaviors certainly
make us feel good and are extremely important to a marriage and committed relationship.
There is something to learn everyday!!! sometimes we block out what we can learn by clinging to anguish and allowing ourselves to be over come with anger.
We might want to ask ourselves, "why do we hold on to envy", and "what benefit do we gain from resentment", and why do we dislike learning from each others
to the point we will become enraged with contempt, even within the sharing of information?
So many claim they want a better world, and overlook the fact that "we as individuals make up a component of what society is, and what it becomes".
Do we even return a greeting ? how often do we think of simple no cost kindness? and what is the overall benefit of always being in such a hurry, not only do we not smell the flowers, we get so consumed, we often don't even see the flowers.
When we were young, we'd even pay attention to the shapes of the clouds, and yet today, so many walk around and never take the time to look up, at the many shapes the clouds display that we have opportunity to acknowledge.
Yet, only when some of the natural gifts are lost, do we come to recognize the grace and beauty of being able to see, to hear, to smell, and to walk about, or interact with others.
It's insane today, how material measure and the incessant quest for monetary pursuits become the driving force, even when we can afford to maintain our basics, we will neglect and disregard each others, even in some cases when people have millions of dollars in the bank...
We tale education not for the sake of its information dispensing, it now is used like a status tool, until it breed not only an anti-social climate, but many other things that benefit no one. Status and Title, Pomp and Pageantry, and all such things, come to be of far less meaning as age moves us beyond the importance we've made it.
The question continues... How do we "Fix" Ourselves as People?.. is what it takes to "Fix America" ?
Are we willing, or do we just blame the rest of the world as if we are exempt?
We see the mess in Las Vegas, We see the ravages of the weather on whole states, and territories, and yet we can't come to consensus as to how to make better our society? We go into the spin of remorse for a few days, and then the media spins another event, and we become distanced from the tragedy and what it takes to improve and make better the things we claim so much emotional compassion about only a week ago... Then it gets covered over by the next situation where its given center focus, and suddenly fades from the conscience subject within society.
At some point we have to realize, as a nation of people, we have problems, and many are generated by the conduct of people.... "how do we address it, and are we prepared for the long term changes that will need to be undertaken?"
There is no microwave quick fix, it requires changes... and new understandings. Instead of everyone walking around "talking about "my freedom"... why not think in terms of "my responsibilities" to be a good civic and civil person, and embrace the regard to promote good will within humanity? Sometimes, it make take nothing more than a smile, or a hello, or a considerate thought.
We know absolutely nothing, beyond what is within and of the world .... and it gives us the means to build and create anything we can think to imagine and work to develop. What more are we expecting?
and how much are we "disrespecting". Often times our disrespect exceeds our respect, and then we start expecting, when we have failed even within ourselves to respect ourselves.
The first thing we need to know, is "that freedom we all talk about" is not free....
It is a product of Responsibility, that one gains the freedom of accessibility.
Love only comes easy when one is "Loving" in what they do, how they give, how they share, how they appreciate and within how they relate. It takes "work"!!! Those who get anguished because its not everyday easy, is expecting, without respecting... and often they disrespect themselves in doing so... then they climb up, and become "obstinate"....
such is the madness of what "selfishness" can and will do, in its cycle of destroying relationships, as well as the individuals within them.
How do we "Fix" Ourselves as People?.. is what it takes to "Fix America" ?
God gave us everything, including our lives... and we expect so much, until we rebuke at the work it takes for us to live and love.
We should want to know....
How do we "Fix" Ourselves as People? and then we might learn even better how to appreciate and respect even ourselves, and find how much easier it makes it to be considerate of and for the lives of others.
A good questions that can help us all be better people, is to ask: " How am I, today" "How are you to family and friends?" How's my family? How's my relationship" How's my mate? What did I do that was nice for and unto myself today? what did I do that was nice for and to
someone else today?
We have to start someplace... its best to start with "self".... so we are working to be whom we say we are, and whom we want people to know us as being whom we are....
The question continues... How do we "Fix" Ourselves as People?.. is what it takes to "Fix America" ? (This is a:
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