Quote:
Originally Posted by Nor Cal Wahine
Stop it. You are requiring an "all or nothing" attitude about this topic in order for people to avoid being insulted by you. That's not very broad-minded or mature. "Agree with me on ________ or else _______". What the heck? You may simply be too traumatized by your own experiences to be able to discuss this topic rationally. That's understandable if so, but it doesn't give you ANY right to speak for others, or assign nefarious motives to anyone who may have a different opinion on this topic.
I am a woman who was sexually assaulted by two teenaged boys when I was 13. It was nothing like having a man pinch my butt at a concert when I was 16, or having a male coworker constantly hitting me up to go out on a date with him when I was in my early twenties. Different scenarios require different response.
If you are too blinded by trauma to understand this concept, then perhaps an open forum attended by people of differing perspectives isn't the place for you.
|
I wish I could rep you again, but I can't. It's the irrational belief that all incidents are equally egregious and traumatizing that leads to a loss of any credibility. Zero. YOU are far more credible having had all of these experiences (and I'm very sorry you suffered in all those ways) and still be able to put them into correct context and perspective.
This is the society we live in. Bumping into someone is a physical assault with people calling the police. And putting a hand on a woman's behind is now sexual assault, and if your opinion is that it's wrong, sexist, humiliating for the woman - but
not sexual assault - then you are defending rapists.
This black and white thinking some people are stuck in is both dangerous and twisted.