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Old 01-26-2018, 11:29 AM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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Whether CNN was merely reporting on this study or tacitly supporting its results matters little to me. I find the subject matter to be quite...strange. More and more we are seeing "studies" (ostensibly science based though I find that an inappropriate term) that attempt to normalize some sexual subject or another.


That cuckholding would be considered to be beneficial to any relationship involving two people who are truly in love I find to be less than credible. The summary of this study did not state any particular benefit to such a sexual practice, only that there COULD be (unspecified) benefit. What that might be I cannot fathom. I can't imagine sexually sharing someone I care deeply for with someone else. I can only envision a deep pain associated with that. Should my partner actually desire it the hurt would be all the greater. Were my lady to have expressed a desire to have sex with someone else whilst I watched I can only see deep pain and humiliation to be the result. Certainly not beneficial in any way to our relationship.


She would have felt the same. Some things are just not meant to be shared, and the intimacy between two people in love is one of these. But more and more we see "studies" like this that validate the odd fantasies of things such as cuckholding. To my personal feelings my partner desiring to have sex with someone else, or even wanting me to have sex with someone else, particularly in some voyeuristic way just does not register anywhere on my scale of desires.


This study, regardless of what CNNs take on it may be, is nothing more than an effort to justify acting on the twisted cuckhold fantasy. It smells of a "try it you'll like it" from people who have tried it and do like it. To the credit of the reporter he did say it's not for everyone, (ya think?) . In terms of such sexual fantasies as this I would say it belongs with a lot of other fantasies. In the realm of fantasy.


Its been my experience that in regards to acting on some wild fantasy or another it will be found out, usually most painfully, that having is often a far less pleasant thing than wanting.

 
Old 01-26-2018, 12:21 PM
 
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I know, embarrassing for you.
 
Old 01-26-2018, 12:24 PM
 
Location: USA
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I admit, I had to Google “cuckolding.” Is it one of those archaic terms used in Shakespeare’s days?
 
Old 01-26-2018, 12:26 PM
 
Location: deafened by howls of 'racism!!!'
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How does the Cuckold News Network take a study about gay men cuckolding and turn into a heterosexual thing?
that's a good question.

an even better one is 'why'
 
Old 01-26-2018, 12:29 PM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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I admit, I had to Google “cuckolding.” Is it one of those archaic terms used in Shakespeare’s days?

mmmm. Perhaps. However there is a whole genre of porn revolving around it as well. Seems one can find whatever sort of odd fetish that pleases them on Google. The term may have actually had a totally different context in the 17th century. It wouldn't be the first word /term to have a meaning twisted out of context with its original use.
 
Old 01-26-2018, 12:33 PM
 
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Human sexuality is an area where all bets are off. Trying to apply typical ideas of morality to it is a waste of time. Don’t even bother doing it.

Most people don’t have the emotional strength or the intellectual honesty to talk about this topic, so this is a wasted thread. What’s done in your bedrooms (between consenting adults) is your business, and so are your thoughts on sexuality. And unless you wanna discuss all that stuff with the whole damn world, you shouldn’t pass judgement on what others are doing.

Coming on here to make yourself sound like a paragon of moral rectitude on sexual matters is lame. We don’t know what your thoughts and fantasies are, and for all we know, they could be something far beyond cuckholding.

In fact, the more outraged you seem about this topic, the more circumspect I am about YOU!!
 
Old 01-26-2018, 12:37 PM
 
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Who cares - why do strong women bother some people so much? Some men are attracted to that, and it might even be good for their relationship.


I really don't understand what the big deal is, and why the alt-right cares so much about how people live their life, man or woman.

Unless it's someone banging a porn star years ago and paid her to be quiet about it. Seems like the left is in a uproar over that because it's Trump, on the Stormy Daniels thread.
 
Old 01-26-2018, 12:58 PM
 
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Pfft, you obviously support it then too since you shared this, just like CNN did.
Another fail. I'm clearly making a mockery of the Cuckold News Network.
 
Old 01-26-2018, 12:59 PM
 
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I know, embarrassing for you.
 
Old 01-26-2018, 01:22 PM
 
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As for the study. Hmmmmmmm..................... If you say so. Isn't there anything else we could be doing with our precious time?
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