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Old 01-29-2018, 08:51 PM
 
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So I consider myself an armchair detective and have a fascination with studying organized crime and serial killers. However, the one crime that truly bothers me that I simply can't understand is domestic violence in that of a man killing his girlfriend, wife, mother of his children.

Apparently in the history of America long before random killings, road rage, and serial killers, the number one reported crime was domestic violence.

Just recently the other day in the news a 28-year-old Timothy Smith shot and killed his x girlfriend, 3 other people, then himself all over that his girlfriend left him. Why was this kind of response even necessary?! This is happening almost weekly now. Men shooting and killing girlfriends/wives just because they want to end a relationship.

https://www.google.com/amp/www.daily...g-suspect.html

Again, this isn't new. Just look at The Charlie Project that catalogs all the known missing persons in America. In the majority of missing women the common theme is the boyfriend\husband is the suspect. The Charley Project


Personally, I feel that there is something inherently flawed with monogamy. Putting all your hopes and dreams into one person is a seriously flawed concept.

What do you all think?
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Old 01-29-2018, 08:59 PM
 
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actually. Women are the most safe from murder. Men are far more likely to be murdered than women
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Old 01-29-2018, 09:05 PM
 
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Domestic violence is nothing new. Women kill men, men kill women. The vast majority of men are physically stronger than women are, so there you go.
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Old 01-29-2018, 09:14 PM
 
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So I consider myself an armchair detective and have a fascination with studying organized crime and serial killers. However, the one crime that truly bothers me that I simply can't understand is domestic violence in that of a man killing his girlfriend, wife, mother of his children.

Apparently in the history of America long before random killings, road rage, and serial killers, the number one reported crime was domestic violence.

Just recently the other day in the news a 28-year-old Timothy Smith shot and killed his x girlfriend, 3 other people, then himself all over that his girlfriend left him. Why was this kind of response even necessary?! This is happening almost weekly now. Men shooting and killing girlfriends/wives just because they want to end a relationship.

https://www.google.com/amp/www.daily...g-suspect.html

Again, this isn't new. Just look at The Charlie Project that catalogs all the known missing persons in America. In the majority of missing women the common theme is the boyfriend\husband is the suspect. The Charley Project


Personally, I feel that there is something inherently flawed with monogamy. Putting all your hopes and dreams into one person is a seriously flawed concept.

What do you all think?
Most homicides are committed by men, around 90%. But in the category of domestic homicide, women are only about 20% more likely than men to be victims.
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Old 01-30-2018, 09:01 AM
 
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So I consider myself an armchair detective and have a fascination with studying organized crime and serial killers. However, the one crime that truly bothers me that I simply can't understand is domestic violence in that of a man killing his girlfriend, wife, mother of his children.

Apparently in the history of America long before random killings, road rage, and serial killers, the number one reported crime was domestic violence.

Just recently the other day in the news a 28-year-old Timothy Smith shot and killed his x girlfriend, 3 other people, then himself all over that his girlfriend left him. Why was this kind of response even necessary?! This is happening almost weekly now. Men shooting and killing girlfriends/wives just because they want to end a relationship.

https://www.google.com/amp/www.daily...g-suspect.html

Again, this isn't new. Just look at The Charlie Project that catalogs all the known missing persons in America. In the majority of missing women the common theme is the boyfriend\husband is the suspect. The Charley Project


Personally, I feel that there is something inherently flawed with monogamy. Putting all your hopes and dreams into one person is a seriously flawed concept.

What do you all think?
I don't think that polygyny would change mindset of men who would commit violence or kill their wife/girlfriend/baby mamma. Studies show that domestic violence increases in polygamous relationships.

Normality is not putting all your hopes and dreams into one person then offing them if those hopes and dreams are not fulfilled. Most people accept that relationships dont always work out. They can move on from a failed relationship despite feelings of loss or heartache and enter into as many new relationships as necessary or be content in singledom.
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