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Old 03-01-2018, 06:31 AM
 
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Someone else will have to answer as to why these women do it but I have to say to the boys, good job. They get laid, nude photos and then when the gal is exposed, they get to sue the schools for a fortune...why would you not do it?


At the risk of hypocrisy, I don't think this is a serious crime, I mean what is the harm to the 14 year old boy getting some sex? Girls are another matter, they need to be protected.
Why? What happened to "equal rights"?
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Old 03-01-2018, 06:55 AM
 
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I don't think its necessarily wrong to find someone underage attractive. If you see a cute baby or toddler and you say 'Wow he/she is very cute!' as I'm sure people have done many times in their lives, does that automatically make you a pedophile? Or does that mean you simply find someone cute and/or attractive AND THAT'S IT? Namely just because you find someone cute even if they're underage, if you're not doing anything else like in this story with the teacher and her student, then what exactly is the problem?

And also with regards to your son he may or may not be mature enough to handle sex, but if he's straight you can sure as hell bet that he's curious about sex and most definitely is curious about girls. Maybe females don't understand this much because.........well they're female and they think differently about sex, but as straight males we're usually very interested in girls even at a very young age. Your son may not be ready for sex, but don't be surprised if his browser history isn't very PG someday or even now because he started looking at naked chicks and porn.
Are you seriously conflating finding a child cute with finding them sexually attractive?

I'm not talking about finding a CHILD sexually attractive. And yes, its DISGUSTING.

Yes, he's curious. He's a teenage boy. That doesn't mean he is emotionally or intellectually ready to handle sex...especially with an adult! And no, females aren't some lily white pure as the driven snow virginal Madonnas so many try to make us out to be. We enjoy sex. We find men attractive. We have hormones and orgasms and fantasies. But that's NO excuse to defend an adult having sex with a child. End.of.story.

And again conflating two TOTALLY different things: looking at photos of naked women DOES NOT equate to sexual intercourse.
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Old 03-01-2018, 07:07 AM
 
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They shouldn't hire attractive women as teachers. Men and older women would be a safer bet.

There should also be stricter dress codes for teachers. I think they have been encouraged to be more like friends to the students rather than keeping it professional.
I disagree.

Someone's looks aren't a great barometer of their moral character. I had very good looking teachers who were professionals and are still teaching to this day, doing wonderful things for their students. And I've had unattractive teachers who were notorious pervs.
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Old 03-01-2018, 07:10 AM
 
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Every 14 year old boy's dream.
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Old 03-01-2018, 07:11 AM
 
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Every 14 year old boy's dream.
Perhaps. But it doesn't make it okay.

Do you know how many 14 year old girls wanted to sleep with the hot new English teacher at our school? A LOT. Would it have been a-okay for that to happen? Of course not.

This double standard with boys is appalling.
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Old 03-01-2018, 07:12 AM
 
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Someone has to do it...

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Old 03-01-2018, 07:16 AM
 
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Perhaps. But it doesn't make it okay.

Do you know how many 14 year old girls wanted to sleep with the hot new English teacher at our school? A LOT. Would it have been a-okay for that to happen? Of course not.

This double standard with boys is appalling.
Hah, I don't know what a girl wants at 14 but I remember what I wanted LOL.

But yeah I agree. Any man who has a sexual relationship with a 14 year old needs to be taken out and shot. But the female....I don't know. This is DNA and instinct we are talking about here.

I mean she should lose her job but I think that's where it should end.
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Old 03-01-2018, 07:19 AM
 
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Hah, I don't know what a girl wants at 14 but I remember what I wanted LOL.

But yeah I agree. Any man who has a sexual relationship with a 14 year old needs to be taken out and shot. But the female....I don't know. This is DNA and instinct we are talking about here.

I mean she should lose her job but I think that's where it should end.
What a double standard.

I meant honestly. A child is a child. An adult is an adult. No further qualification needed.

Adults shouldn't have sex with children. End of story. And yes, both male and female teachers should face prison time for having sex with a kid.
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Old 03-01-2018, 07:22 AM
 
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Lots of hypocrisy in here
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Old 03-01-2018, 07:23 AM
 
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What a double standard.

I meant honestly. A child is a child. An adult is an adult. No further qualification needed.

Adults shouldn't have sex with children. End of story. And yes, both male and female teachers should face prison time for having sex with a kid.
Baloney. Huge difference between men and women. This is not going to harm this 14 year old. It will be a story he proudly tells his whole life to his closest buddies.

For a 14 year old girl it is outright rape and a horrible thing.

Seriously, you want this young women's life ruined over this? She can't be a teacher, that much is certain.

They need to develop better screening for young females before they are hired. Problem is, there is not a surplus of college grads applying for teaching positions and it's getting worse all the time.

I think this has been going on forever. I think the districts just quietly allowed the women to resign before this crazy social media world was born.
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