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Old 05-25-2018, 05:33 PM
 
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Polygamy leads to violence because lots of men end up single with nothing better to do than fight. In polygamous societies no self-respecting man would share a wife but women would rather share a rich husband than have a poor one all to themselves. No thank you.

https://www.economist.com/the-econom...eeds-civil-war
LOL. Wow. there have been many polygamous societies throughout history that were incredibly peaceful.

And in a modern society that can be even more true. I've been involved where I was one of several males, and as the only male with several females. Both worked to varying degrees.

Your first mistake is thinking all poly groups are one male with multiple female partners. And thats the mistake the author of your link makes as well. The states he discusses all involve religions where the male can have multiple wives, but not vice versa.

There are a LOT more people involved in poly relationships then most people think.
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Old 05-25-2018, 05:56 PM
 
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Polygamy leads to violence because lots of men end up single with nothing better to do than fight. In polygamous societies no self-respecting man would share a wife but women would rather share a rich husband than have a poor one all to themselves. No thank you.

https://www.economist.com/the-econom...eeds-civil-war
Single motherhood leads to more violence.

Homosexuality among men leads to even more violence.
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Old 05-25-2018, 06:06 PM
 
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It's a tax and bureaucracy nightmare?

If you marry more than one spouse, it'd be a problem with property being willed to the next spouse? In a court of law, there'd be massive confusion? Also, one has to bring up child custody.

Is there a moral standard, or just legal standard that made bigamy/polygamy illegal?
Don't worry, I'm sure that the Leftists are plotting at this moment to make it legal and to make those who object guilty of "hate speech" laws.
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Old 05-25-2018, 06:11 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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Don't worry, I'm sure that the Leftists are plotting at this moment to make it legal and to make those who object guilty of "hate speech" laws.
How is getting the government out of peoples' private lives "leftist?"

Get the State out of marriage completely.
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Old 05-25-2018, 06:12 PM
 
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Don't worry, I'm sure that the Leftists are plotting at this moment to make it legal and to make those who object guilty of "hate speech" laws.

LOL. even the leftists have no idea how to make our laws work around the idea. course large scale chain families and the sort would probably reduce abortion, so im surprised you are so against it.
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Old 05-25-2018, 06:30 PM
 
Location: North Seattle
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LOL. Wow. there have been many polygamous societies throughout history that were incredibly peaceful.

And in a modern society that can be even more true. I've been involved where I was one of several males, and as the only male with several females. Both worked to varying degrees.

Your first mistake is thinking all poly groups are one male with multiple female partners. And thats the mistake the author of your link makes as well. The states he discusses all involve religions where the male can have multiple wives, but not vice versa.

There are a LOT more people involved in poly relationships then most people think.
Generally polyamory is one male and multiple females. I simply observed that self-respecting males don't want to share a wife (sure there are undesirable beta males who do, maybe you're the rare exception to that rule, maybe not). My statement that polygamous societies are more violent is based on verifiable fact that you don't have an answer for.
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Old 05-26-2018, 08:27 AM
 
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If the state cannot dictate the genders of people involved in civil unions then it also cannot dictate the number of participants.
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Old 05-26-2018, 08:29 AM
 
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Generally polyamory is one male and multiple females. I simply observed that self-respecting males don't want to share a wife (sure there are undesirable beta males who do, maybe you're the rare exception to that rule, maybe not). My statement that polygamous societies are more violent is based on verifiable fact that you don't have an answer for.
I'd think a guy would have to be a little bit homosexual to be ok with sharing a wife.
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Old 05-26-2018, 08:34 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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The laws exist to protect you from excessive nagging and whining.
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Old 05-26-2018, 02:26 PM
 
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Single motherhood leads to more violence.

Homosexuality among men leads to even more violence.

Yep, but the violence also exists among homosexual women. Some of the worse domestic calls I answered as a police officer involved homosexual women. Very, very jealous and vindictive.
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