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Originally Posted by Rachel976
But when you say "whites do it too," you are failing to admit that blacks do it to a greater degree (drop out of high school and have illegitimate babies) and that that accounts for much of their problems. Denying that blacks have at least SOME role in their failures isn't going to help blacks succeed.
I've said it a gazillion times, but if blacks were to drop the OOW birthrate to 50% (still shameful), poverty and crime rates would shrink.
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Do you understand what "too" means? it means
"in addition; also.
Geez !!!! Not one time did I say nor imply that single parent births were not an issue and it is very much not beneficial, but I am certainly not going to say, its only a black issue. It is a major problem!!!, I see people with multiple little kids they are unable to properly care for and I see to many kids that are being groomed based on external imagery and bling name tag delusions and allowed to be without the controls and regulation that were once standard, even when single mothers had kids many decades ago. The society today, is far different, this is also seen in white society as well. heck, by 8:30 during school season, it was time to be in bed. Now kids stay up half the night with games, tech, and some unsupervised with no parameters.
That is not to diminish the issue for either race. Its an issue that we have enough birth control in the America system to avert the problem for any woman, black or white, and we also have issues that neither black nor white is addressing, "the women did not have the baby by herself" someone impregnated her. But we are not addressing the "male factor" on either race.
We both black and white might be able to learn from the Asian, they have a better grip of their values, than both black and white society in America as to educational focus and birth rates by single mothers. That's not claiming them perfect or anything, its simply saying, there is something to learn when they live here too,it could be argued, that their birth rate by single women has not skyrocketed. (it could be argued, that they may are in smaller numbers as to citizen population, and by variance of population volumes, there may be some similarities in %'s relative to population size)
Never the less, people can learn from people... regardless of what their skin color is. America has problem!! and the problems are never one dimensional.
Neither did I say one time, that blacks did not have a role to fill in their life conditions.
Most of these readers and writes ignore facts, and push nothing but their bias mined slants. I've posted FBI Stats, as it relates to crime, but as usual, some of these white people, brush it off as if to try and white wash it away.
None of that is to say crime is not a problem in society, in the black community as well as the white community.
Maybe some of you should look at the insane crimes in white society while you are so singluarily focused on blacks, because crime is an issue in America!!! black and white crime.
who the hell kills their mate and eat part of their body, or killing the whole family likes its a sport, aswell as young people killing each other like its a fad thing to do, among the very long list of types of crimes. FBI is logging stats based on fiction, they are "facts"
As to regional birth rates, surely there are charts that show the high rate of unwed black mothers, and likely many various cities compile these states. Here's one from
Rochester. But at no time will the fact of unwed white mothers be dismiss as not being an issue as well.
Who uses public services
Here's some more
diversity stats for the inquiring minds
We have crazy stuff in society today, before, No one left their baby in a hot car, no body was dousing their babies with chemicals, and other brutal stuff, at leas it certainly was not something publicized, people now are so crazed, the first thought when they get anguished is to kill someone, or kill or damage or destroy something. It's like a sickness in the air of society.
Once upon a time people could tell the difference between a hooker and non hooker by the way they dressed different, today... there is no difference in dress. so, what I find is, don't assume anyone is a hooker until they reveal themselves as being so.
(laugh)!!!
As to people... I'm as saddened by seeing blacks, hang out, don't go to school, do thug stuff, sit around the house, drinking, doing drugs and killing each other.making babies they can't support or care for, the same as I am saddened by seeing whites, hang out, don't go to school, doing thug stuff, and sit around the house, drinking, doing drugs and killing each other.
On a personal note, I'm not thrilled at seeing so many black women in wigs, and odd hair colors that don't fit within the business environment. or black boys with their pants saggin, but now, I see white boys with their pants saggin, as well as white women now wearing more and more wigs, and odd hair colors that don't fit within the business environment.
People say, let individuals do what they want. Well ... when what they want stands in the way or their progress and ability to maintain and sustain themselves... then it becomes a social civic matter.
Its seems society has taken the "party mentality" and made it an "all day mentality". When I grew up, people "dressed for work" Professionally, even if they wore a uniform, they wore it with a neat and clean dignity.
Now, some people go to jobs looking any kind of way, ungroomed hair, (black and white), slap on a wig, stick on a cap, I see guys with the dingy tee shirts with a worn label, or boots they won't even make effort to clean, if it was muddy during work yesterday, they get up and put it on muddy tomorrow. Some people don't even dress for "meeting".
I remember in the 1980 and 1990's when people got hung up on Jogging Suits and in some levels of business, they thought it was chic to come in a jogging suit. When I grew up, Teachers Dressed Professional, not Sexy Revealing, or Hang Out Casual... The Classroom was their Office, and they dressed in Professional Office Attire.
Today, we got too many teachers trying to bang the students and trying to look like a teenager themselves.
I will never as long as I'm healthy and able bodies get up and put on dress slacks and shirt and tie, with un-shined shoes!!! I will not put on a wrinkled shirt while wearing a necktie. I don't go out ungroomed!!!
We all have a dignity to uphold if we first embrace having dignity.
None of us are without error, and we will make mistake, but it matters who's willing to face it, and work to correct it. and not repeat it.
Sadly, we are not going to get the perfect world of ideals.... People have tried it by many means, from the acts of Dictators, Authoritarians, and Segregation, Secular Discrimination, Cults and what ever frame one can imagine to try and make pockets of ideals, and it just is not something that is likely to happen in the next 50 yrs. But, progress will continue to be made decade by decade.
Maybe in a 100 yrs the world will have evolved to be a better world, when the world is better educated in understanding what it takes for Civility to Be Universal, and technology is able to do things in ways that can assist civility being engaged and sustained among society of people; to become and be a civic systems with civility as the higher premise and format.
Until then, we keep plugging away at trying to work on what we think can make it better for all.
I'm glad to hear white people want to see life be better for black people. I'm glad to hear that black people want to see life be better for white people.... because the better life is for "all" of us, the better society will be for all of us.