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IMO it WAS inappropriate. Their relationship was a working one and it had nothing to do with work. Not to mention that she was the contractor and I assume his superior. What would a male at work think if a female started telling him how nice his hair and yes are?
IMO it WAS inappropriate. Their relationship was a working one and it had nothing to do with work. Not to mention that she was the contractor and I assume his superior. What would a male at work think if a female started telling him how nice his hair and yes are?
They happened to be peers, but whatever. It's not something I would have done personally. The lady was pretty though
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Originally Posted by kgordeeva
Honestly, he would probably enjoy it...lol.
Probably. Guys have different ways of viewing the world in somje ways.
Ive said this before in another thread: if you respect women this #metoo movement shouldn't affect you. Its men that are overly aggressive with their unwanted inappropriate behavior and comments laced with sexual innuendos that should be worried.
The main reason why men dont hit on women is because they lack confidence, not because of the #meetoo movement.
Agreed, men who are successful with women will not be affected much.
A confident man knows how to approach a potential partner, but he also knows how to back off if the interest is not reciprocated.
This isn't to be mean, just realistic and I've heard it from some women cause they were wondering why. They were curious why guys weren't hitting on them anymore. Well, the "Me too" movement doesn't help. Don't get me wrong, a lot of men did things that were inappropriate and they used a position of power to their advantage, and in no way do I support that. At the same time, I can say many guys (normal good guys) are scared to approach women and give them any impression they are interested. So from my perspective the entire dating/approach spectrum has changed whether women want to admit it or not. From now on, many guys will not be aggressive or appear interested at all. So if you are insecure and don't get hit on, this could be a viable option.
What a load of BS.
If a guy has good intentions, no reasonable woman is going to shun him. COP. OUT.
If a guy has good intentions, no reasonable woman is going to shun him. COP. OUT.
I’ll have to disagree, plenty of people shun potential partners all the time for any reason. Most people are not romantically compatible. However, only an idiot would then do something legally questionable as a result of being shunned by a romantic interest.
IMO it WAS inappropriate. Their relationship was a working one and it had nothing to do with work. Not to mention that she was the contractor and I assume his superior. What would a male at work think if a female started telling him how nice his hair and yes are?
Let's be honest here. If two guys, one she was attracted to, gave that same compliment to her, she would love it coming from the guy she's attracted to. But she would deem to inappropriate from the guy she wasn't attracted to, but at the same time love it because it feeds her need for an attention fix. Females need attention like a heroin addict needs heroin.
I agree with you, but that's where we`re at. All it takes is some woman not appreciating a man commenting on her appearance and it's an HR nightmare. A woman has every right to be upset about a man commenting about her physical looks.
It's the opposite of the Nike ads, just don't do it.
I think maybe because women in the workplace want to be recognized for their job, not their looks. Goes back to the only worth of a woman is her looks and dismissing their work performance.
I mean do you go up to your male peers at work and comment on how shinny their hair is or tell them that shirt looks good on them, or is it job related like you did a good job on that report, etc.
IDK, that kind of thing doesn't bother me.
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