Does a Woman Have a Duty to Protect Herself From Sexual Assault? (business, house)
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Interesting that you aren't saying for men to not be drinking after quoting that 50% of ASSAILANTS were drinking when they assaulted people.
Ha, that's actually a good point.
As far as going to a guy's place and not planning to have sex, I did that ONCE in my 20s. I told his guy, flat out and very sincerely, I was NOT going to have sex with him. He agreed. As soon as we got there, duh, what do you think he tried to push all night? Learned my lesson, and never again (unless I was agreeable to the possibility, of course).
It shouldn't have to be this way, if you say you're not interested in that, they should take it on face value and you just watch a movie or something. (I refuse to use that phrase, lol.) But, that's just not the way it is. Most men will most likely try. This is like Dating 101 for women. Don't do it, if you really aren't interested in sex that night. You're probably not on the same page.
Lol?!Are we talking about standing in front of a huge picture window or just hanging out in our upper-story apartment? Geez.
Open curtains and undressed isn't risque? Open curtains and undressed in view of any window that's not private from viewing from outside.
About the time you told the guy you'd keep company but no sex, not to defend him to keep trying all night, but a lot of women say no sex out of the blue and intend the opposite.
About the time you told the guy you'd keep company but no sex, not to defend him to keep trying all night, but a lot of women say no sex out of the blue and intend the opposite.
Well, stop complainin', then.
Seriously, that's why I'm saying women shouldn't do it, period. Because of "miscommunication" or "misunderstandings."
Open curtains and undressed isn't risque? Open curtains and undressed in view of any window that's not private from viewing from outside.
About the time you told the guy you'd keep company but no sex, not to defend him to keep trying all night, but a lot of women say no sex out of the blue and intend the opposite.
I'm just wondering how often it happens that a woman is hanging out undressed in her home with the curtains open, in full view of people, and some random man sees her and breaks in and rapes her.
Seriously, that's why I'm saying women shouldn't do it, period. Because of "miscommunication" or "misunderstandings."
I'm not complaining. I'm just saying often when a female says it, for whatever the reason she intends the opposite so it serves as a green light. So we are on the same page about hang out alone in private.
If we knew who would get drunk and assault someone, or if someone was asking how they could avoid assaulting someone we'd tell them to not drink, duh.
What? No, the advice for ALL women is not to drink because it increases our chances of being assaulted. So we should also say to men to not drink since it increases their chance of assaulting by 50%.
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Lol?! Are we talking about standing in front of a huge picture window or just hanging out in our upper-story apartment? Geez.