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Old 05-14-2019, 09:52 PM
 
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It's my understanding this is for high school students. Since we have so much grooming going on this is probably not a bad idea.
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Old 05-14-2019, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Chicago Area
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I would cautiously support such a law. The power dynamic between student and teacher and the possibility for quid-pro-quo of trading sex for better grades. Even if there is nothing shady going on, it's an unequal relationship. If your 18 year old student has you all hot and bothered and the feeling is mutual then keep your pants on and wait till they're not your student anymore.
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Old 05-14-2019, 10:29 PM
 
Location: Lost in Montana *recalculating*...
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Not sure about this one.

While I agree those under 18 should be protected, once you are 18 it starts to get into legal age and making your own decisions.

https://www.northjersey.com/story/ne...18/1167775001/
A teacher holds a position of authority over a student, therefore the legal entity over the teacher has a right to ban relationships between a student and teacher.

It's honestly not that hard to comprehend the ramifications of such relationships. Just let the southern red states have open sexual relationships, like most do with 16 year old's or younger.
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Old 05-14-2019, 10:34 PM
 
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For some reason I keep thinking of Van Halen's Hot For Teacher.
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Old 05-14-2019, 10:35 PM
 
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I would cautiously support such a law. The power dynamic between student and teacher and the possibility for quid-pro-quo of trading sex for better grades. Even if there is nothing shady going on, it's an unequal relationship. If your 18 year old student has you all hot and bothered and the feeling is mutual then keep your pants on and wait till they're not your student anymore.
Wouldnt the same hold true for college student and professor relationships as well?


If its not entirely about the age thing and its more 'someone in an authority position over the other', then the law should apply to college as well.
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Old 05-14-2019, 10:41 PM
 
Location: Chicago Area
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Wouldnt the same hold true for college student and professor relationships as well?

If its not entirely about the age thing and its more 'someone in an authority position over the other', then the law should apply to college as well.
Yes that's true. College professors shouldn't be screwing their students. Again, keep your pants on and wait till they're not your student. I believe that having sex with your students was a fireable offense at most colleges and universities until pretty recently, and that was precisely the reasoning behind the rule.

I do say that I would cautiously support such a law because I don't like the idea of telling people how to live their lives. I don't like the idea of telling people who they can or can't love. I just think that the power dynamic between student and teacher makes the relationship problematic. I'm not saying you can never have a romantic relationship with a former student. I'm saying don't do it while they're your student.
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Old 05-14-2019, 11:36 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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In mental health, several states have banned sexual relationships between therapist and client for similar reasons. There is even a manditory waiting period after the therapy has ended before a relationship between formers cam be acceptable
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Old 05-14-2019, 11:42 PM
 
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Who would have sex with a 22 year old high school student? Doesn't anyone have standards anymore?
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Old 05-14-2019, 11:50 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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Who would have sex with a 22 year old high school student? Doesn't anyone have standards anymore?
Anymore? Its probably been occuring since the beginning of the history of public education.....
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Old 05-15-2019, 04:02 AM
 
Location: NY
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I say heave.... ho.... to teachers and professors and say hello to men and women of the cloth.
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