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But no matter what your situation is, it's always best to be honest and upfront about everything from the get go.
After all, do you really want someone who's only interested in you because they think you're someone that you're not?
Sage advice, but the reality is that it is not human nature at all. Everyone is trying to portray something they are not, to some extent. Social media just makes that worse.
If a woman marries a man who has a twin brother....
And that twin brother decides to impersonate the husband in order to trick his brother's wife into having sex with him.....
Is he guilty of rape?
He pretended to be someone he was not in order to get consent to sex under false pretenses.
If a man tells a woman he is a surgeon and makes 500K/year to talk her into having sex with him but in reality he is a nurses aid making 25K/year. Is he guilty of rape? He pretended to be someone he was not in order to get consent for sex?
If a man answers an online add to receive oral sex from a stranger. Allows the stranger to preform oral sex without attempting to even identify the appearance of the stranger. Then go back again to receive oral sex, is that really being deceived? Does it make the stranger a predator or just not 100% forthcoming.
If I order a diet coke and the waitress knowingly pours me regular coke but I like it and order another of the same........Then I look at the can more closely, get embarrassed and angry and bash her head in should I not be held responsible for her death?
Get paid $50 to get your knob polished? If it sounds too good to be true...
I have a hard time wrapping my head around that one too. And near-anonymous sex?
Maybe people should have some idea of who they are engaging in sex with, especially if they are paying you for being the recipient of sexual gratification. You have got to think there is a catch somewhere.
If a man tells a woman he is a surgeon and makes 500K/year to talk her into having sex with him but in reality he is a nurses aid making 25K/year. Is he guilty of rape? He pretended to be someone he was not in order to get consent for sex?
If a man answers an online add to receive oral sex from a stranger. Allows the stranger to preform oral sex without attempting to even identify the appearance of the stranger. Then go back again to receive oral sex, is that really being deceived? Does it make the stranger a predator or just not 100% forthcoming.
If I order a diet coke and the waitress knowingly pours me regular coke but I like it and order another of the same........Then I look at the can more closely, get embarrassed and angry and bash her head in should I not be held responsible for her death?
Getting the wrong coke equals rape? - I guess this is the slippery slope in action.
Getting the wrong coke equals rape? - I guess this is the slippery slope in action.
Cuz... Coke is the real thing !!! * Jovially said*.
On the subject of rape , I cannot fathom that act of violence and violation is gender specific. It can happen to any human of any age ...by the assailant to the victim (s).
So the subject of trans or gender identify is moot to this act of physical violation.
I don't believe it qualifies as rape, but it most definitely qualifies as deception (which yes isn't a crime, but it could lead to crime). If someone wants to live the transgender life then great, by all means do so. But if you can pass for someone of the opposite gender to the average person, then it'd behoove you to be upfront and honest about your XX or XY chromosomal makeup before trying to deceive someone in an intimate setting. People have been killed for less.
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