Fathers rights abortion decision (world, work, women, best)
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As others have suggested, your alternative is forcing women to act as surrogates against their will and pay for it themselves. From what I’ve read, these days the average cost of maternal care and delivery is about $4,500-6000 after insurance kicks in, and that presumes an uncomplicated birth.
Let’s not get into assumptions about women getting pregnant because they had unprotected sex. A lot of pregnancies happen when people are using birth control. In many cases, they are using it correctly. Birth control tends to come with certain expectations about a woman’s size, so women who are obese may have failures. Some women are not able to take hormonal birth control or use a copper IUD. Yes, men do tamper with condoms. I work with someone who said her husband did this to her because she did not want kids. I also know of men who relied on the woman telling him that she was on birth control and electing not to use condoms. If a man doesn’t want kids, he needs to take his own precautions to ensure that doesn’t happen. This doesn’t only fall on the woman.
Here's where you go wrong. Birth control used properly especially when the female and male both use birth control devices prior to sex the rate of failure is minute. But you and yours always throw up that minute chance to defend abortions. Most abortions are performed not due to birth control failure but because of irresponsibility. Then you go on to defend abortion with more far fetched scenarios.
The female is the one who gets pregnant not the male so it is she that should make sure she is protected and her partner also. If she's concerned about a minute failure rate then she shouldn't engage in sex. It's really that simple.
Well once it comes out of her body, he gets to be a dad. Before that, he should make his feelings known and then she needs to do what is best for her and her baby. And sometimes that is an abortion if she knows she would be a ****ty mom, has an abusive potential baby daddy, or will be living in poverty. Or if she just doesn’t want to be pregnant and risk her life and health and future fertility in child birth.
You can find daily cases of kids abused to the point of death in the media. Those are rarely ever “wanted kids.” It is sad when a dad really wants a baby and the mother doesn’t, but it happens the other way around too. Dad doesn’t want the kid and mom does.
A baby grows inside of another human and if that human isn’t you, it’s really none of your business but a talk with the potential dad would be respectful IMO.
“Half his” In chromosomes, but until dads can grow one for 9 months, we all know the burden and responsibility falls on the mom.
More desperate attempts here to defend killing the unborn. It's never best for an innocent human being to be killed in the womb. All of your desperate scenarios have other solutions than that. It's everybody's business to care about human life!
Since the 9 months of carrying a baby is on the female then it is she that should make sure that she and her partner are using protection and if it fails (which is rare) be willing to accept the consequences of a pregnancy without resorting to killing the unborn.
Let’s not get into assumptions about women getting pregnant because they had unprotected sex. A lot of pregnancies happen when people are using birth control. In many cases, they are using it correctly. Birth control tends to come with certain expectations about a woman’s size, so women who are obese may have failures. Some women are not able to take hormonal birth control or use a copper IUD. Yes, men do tamper with condoms. I work with someone who said her husband did this to her because she did not want kids. I also know of men who relied on the woman telling him that she was on birth control and electing not to use condoms. If a man doesn’t want kids, he needs to take his own precautions to ensure that doesn’t happen. This doesn’t only fall on the woman.
I think this is pretty disingenuous. I’m basically on the pro-choice side, but to me it clear that there are an excessive number of abortions. Birth control is readily available , it is inexpensive, and it is effective. One cannot help but look at the tens of millions of abortions that have taken place since Roe was addressed 50 years ago and at least ask if people don’t have an obligation to take on more responsibility with regard to their sexual activities. There’s hundreds of millions of women and hundreds of millions of reasons why they want to get an abortion. I have no desire for the government to step in and start making that decision for them, but it is pretty clear based on the number of abortions that have occurred, many, many people are not being responsible with their sexual behavior.
Here's where you go wrong. Birth control used properly especially when the female and male both use birth control devices prior to sex the rate of failure is minute. But you and yours always throw up that minute chance to defend abortions. Most abortions are performed not due to birth control failure but because of irresponsibility. Then you go on to defend abortion with more far fetched scenarios.
The female is the one who gets pregnant not the male so it is she that should make sure she is protected and her partner also. If she's concerned about a minute failure rate then she shouldn't engage in sex. It's really that simple.
I suppose if fair is fair according to Democrat's rules, a man should never have to pay child support if the woman has the baby. That should be his choice and his choice alone, just like the left claims killing his unborn child is the woman's choice and hers alone.
Clarification: When I said woman, I obviously meant birthing person. My bad. Sorry.
Let’s not get into assumptions about women getting pregnant because they had unprotected sex. A lot of pregnancies happen when people are using birth control. In many cases, they are using it correctly. Birth control tends to come with certain expectations about a woman’s size, so women who are obese may have failures. Some women are not able to take hormonal birth control or use a copper IUD. Yes, men do tamper with condoms. I work with someone who said her husband did this to her because she did not want kids. I also know of men who relied on the woman telling him that she was on birth control and electing not to use condoms. If a man doesn’t want kids, he needs to take his own precautions to ensure that doesn’t happen. This doesn’t only fall on the woman.
95% of unintended pregnancies are due to voluntary participation in unprotected sex. Actual birth control failure causes 5% of unintended pregnancies, at most.
Here's where you go wrong. Birth control used properly especially when the female and male both use birth control devices prior to sex the rate of failure is minute. But you and yours always throw up that minute chance to defend abortions. Most abortions are performed not due to birth control failure but because of irresponsibility. Then you go on to defend abortion with more far fetched scenarios.
The female is the one who gets pregnant not the male so it is she that should make sure she is protected and her partner also. If she's concerned about a minute failure rate then she shouldn't engage in sex. It's really that simple.
It’s a mutual failure to create an unwanted fetus.
95% of unintended pregnancies are due to voluntary participation in unprotected sex. Actual birth control failure causes 5% of unintended pregnancies, at most.
The so called morning after pill is quite effective to address the rare ooops.
And I say this as someone who is pro choice up to 24 weeks.
If a man doesn’t want his seed aborted he needs to be using his own birth control, each and every time. He should know ahead of time if in the case of unplanned pregnancy if the woman will abort or not. He should only sleep with women who don’t believe in abortion.
Planned. All planned. That maybe works for 5 people out of 400. Passion is not planned.
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