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Of course mummy dearest is trying to deflect everything; unsurprisingly she's hinting at racism being involved.
Reading of the alleged behaviors of the daughter, I don't fault the apartment in evicting them. Maybe that kind of repeated crass behavior is why they are being evicted as compared to other residents.
A Charlotte woman said she was startled to learn she’s being evicted in the aftermath of her 21-year-old daughter and a friend twerking in the pool of their high-rise apartment complex last month, and the friend then cursing at a concierge.
Marshette Foster, who is Black, told The Charlotte Observer she believes what happened at the Element SouthPark outdoor pool across from SouthPark mall on April 30 was part of a pattern of a different concierge appearing when she and her fiance or her daughter, Alanah, and friends, go to relax in the pool.
No matter how high class the apartment you live in is, not everyone who lives there is high class. The apartment has video evidence. This is not a racial incident. The mother is just airing out her daughter's dirty laundry.
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“Resident statements and video show the resident and her guests performing acts of public nudity, fighting, and other extremely unacceptable behaviors for any of our residents to witness, but it is especially unacceptable due to the presence of small children,” Element SouthPark said.
“We are proud to be a diverse community with residents and team members from all backgrounds,” according to the statement. “Our community amenities are for the enjoyment of all residents.
“After several resident complaints regarding the actions that occurred in our amenity spaces, we were obligated to enforce the lease which each resident signs and agrees to when moving into our community.”
Okay, call me old-fashioned, but when my daughter was about 14 in about 2005, I didn't even know what twerking was, but when I went to pick her up from a junior high school dance, I went a few minutes early to observe -- and when I saw my daughter dancing in a VERY sexy and suggestive manner with a female friend -- she is not lesbian, btw, but they were doing it to show off to the boys -- I went up to her and said, "We are leaving now."
As that did not change her behavior toward boys in general, I am not sure that this was the correct response, but I just cannot believe those parents who see their young children acting in that way, and acting like that kind of behavior is perfectly okay. And I cannot believe those people who say it is wrong for anyone to try to inhibit a child's natural sexuality in any way.
Interesting that 'cursing, public acts of nudity' were mentioned...is this place ran by Puritans or what? LOL
I wonder how they felt about the swim suits worn by these young girls, (shows too much skin would be my guess), cannot allow the innocent little children to see midriffs, or thighs on a women, that would be dangerous territory.
Interesting that 'cursing, public acts of nudity' were mentioned...is this place ran by Puritans or what? LOL
I wonder how they felt about the swim suits worn by these young girls, (shows too much skin would be my guess), cannot allow the innocent little children to see midriffs, or thighs on a women, that would be dangerous territory.
It sounds like they have had multiple complaints about this young lady and this was the straw that broke the camels back. I'm no Puritan, but I hated when people cussed and used God's name in vain when my kids were young.
Okay, call me old-fashioned, but when my daughter was about 14 in about 2005, I didn't even know what twerking was, but when I went to pick her up from a junior high school dance, I went a few minutes early to observe -- and when I saw my daughter dancing in a VERY sexy and suggestive manner with a female friend -- she is not lesbian, btw, but they were doing it to show off to the boys -- I went up to her and said, "We are leaving now."
As that did not change her behavior toward boys in general, I am not sure that this was the correct response, but I just cannot believe those parents who see their young children acting in that way, and acting like that kind of behavior is perfectly okay. And I cannot believe those people who say it is wrong for anyone to try to inhibit a child's natural sexuality in any way.
The daughter was 21.
Not sure a mothers words will have the same effect as when she was 14.
Maybe is something more had been said 7 years prior, this situation could have been avoided.
The daughter was 21.
Not sure a mothers words will have the same effect as when she was 14.
Maybe is something more had been said 7 years prior, this situation could have been avoided.
Thanks! I missed that.
But it does make me wonder if she would have/should have been evicted if her daughter was 14, for example, and I also wonder what the laws are in that respect -- and/or if it would make a difference if the daughter was learning disabled and continued her behavior for that reason?
This is a tough one because culture and genetics makes it so that girls are going to want to let loose in this manner and be kinky and sexual and I don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with that... if you tried to condition them to not behave this way they often end up rebelling ... men will often tell you that often the kinkiest women are the ones who were raised as Christians and Catholics they're just conditioned to be private about it and put on the good girl Persona in public.
Their true nature was oppressed for so long that when they finally get a taste of Freedom they can't control themselves. Then again this 21 year old clearly wasn't raised to be a Puritan and she can't control herself . I suspect if she wasn't overweight she wouldn't have gotten evicted the way she did. Also if she happened to be copping an attitude to the people who work there...
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. I suspect if she wasn't overweight she wouldn't have gotten evicted the way she did. Also if she happened to be copping an attitude to the people who work there...