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Old 11-30-2022, 01:08 PM
 
Location: minnesota
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This doctor is excellent IMO

https://youtu.be/FISZshe9L3s
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Old 11-30-2022, 01:10 PM
 
Location: NMB, SC
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My kids talk about it, I thought it was a dating scene type of thing.
Yeah...that's where it gets heavy use. Online girlfriends/boyfriends for months at a time with only a photo to go on and then comes the request for money. Reality hits them hard and heavy.

Go over to the relationship forum and you'll see quite a few posts.
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Old 11-30-2022, 07:09 PM
 
Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan
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Yeah...that's where it gets heavy use. Online girlfriends/boyfriends for months at a time with only a photo to go on and then comes the request for money. Reality hits them hard and heavy.

Go over to the relationship forum and you'll see quite a few posts.

I never knew this word was associated with dating, but I have always avoided the crazy ones that cause constant conflict.
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Old 11-30-2022, 07:14 PM
 
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Don Lemon says 'CNN was NEVER LIBERAL' ~!

Classic Gaslighting technique of Leftoids !

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x7dY...el=NewYorkPost
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Old 11-30-2022, 08:30 PM
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Excellent movie, BTW.
Wow. Incredible star-studded cast. Sounds great.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslight_(1944_film)
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Old 11-30-2022, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan
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Don Lemon says 'CNN was NEVER LIBERAL' ~!

Classic Gaslighting technique of Leftoids !

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x7dY...el=NewYorkPost

He could be correct. Today's liberals are liberal in name only. It's more like the horse they use to ride in on. Today's fake liberals are actually borderline authoritarian leftists, complete with brownshirt style paramilitary forces and a leader who demonizes half the country on a regular basis. They also use more modern methods to overcome the will of the people. By censoring and controlling the narratives, doxing people, etc, they can effectively cancel out the opposition, or at least make it seem like it barely exists and resistance is futile.


If you want to find real examples of liberals, you'd have to look back to some of the founding fathers. Real liberals have very little, if any interest in controlling or managing your life.
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Old 11-30-2022, 08:47 PM
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I never knew this word was associated with dating, but I have always avoided the crazy ones that cause constant conflict.
I heard it first, as a relationship thing. One partner tries to make the other partner think they're crazy and doubt their ability to function rationally.

I just never knew before this where that actually came from - from a husband actually dimming the gaslighting in the house to make his wife think she's crazy.

It's only been very recently that it's been a political thing.
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Old 12-01-2022, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan
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I heard it first, as a relationship thing. One partner tries to make the other partner think they're crazy and doubt their ability to function rationally.

I just never knew before this where that actually came from - from a husband actually dimming the gaslighting in the house to make his wife think she's crazy.

It's only been very recently that it's been a political thing.

You learned about gaslighting from dating??? I wonder why that would be ..... Things that make you go hmmm....


All kidding aside, there are tons of examples of gaslighting throughout history, and people like to use that word when describing them. It makes me wonder if people said the term in the past when referring to or discussing those events, or how the term came to be used to describe them.
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Old 12-02-2022, 12:29 AM
 
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You learned about gaslighting from dating??? I wonder why that would be ..... Things that make you go hmmm....


All kidding aside, there are tons of examples of gaslighting throughout history, and people like to use that word when describing them. It makes me wonder if people said the term in the past when referring to or discussing those events, or how the term came to be used to describe them.
The term is from the 30’s. The classic movie Gaslight with Ingrid Bergman and Charles Boyer. I started to hear it starting a few years back. Great movie btw
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Old 12-02-2022, 02:34 AM
 
Location: California
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I know what gaslighting is but these days I equate it with anything that makes me feel like a sane person living in crazytown. Since I live in the Bay Area it happens a lot.
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