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I think it is disrespectful to make such generalizations.
I wasn't trying to genaralize. Like i said before, the southerners who were on the other forum found it disrespectful and the transplants that weren't originally from the south didn't think it was a big deal.
I presume (and yes, it's an assumption) that they are still teaching the same in classes today. So, by default, if you are NOT showing respect in the fashion discussed, sitting down when you know what is expected to show respect is showing a lack of respect if not outright disrespect. This is debatable, and obviously is being discussed in this forum.
But.. if it walks like a duck.. quacks like a duck...
Unfortunately, as I stated earlier that's not what's taught in California schools, dating myself I was born in the 70's and to this day in CA schools they teach the following as stated by a previous poster.
-Pledge of Allegiance = place hand over heart and recite pledge while looking toward U.S. flag.
-National Anthem = stand up, look toward flag (if there is one), and either sing or remain silent until song is finished.
I presume (and yes, it's an assumption) that they are still teaching the same in classes today. So, by default, if you are NOT showing respect in the fashion discussed, sitting down when you know what is expected to show respect is showing a lack of respect if not outright disrespect. This is debatable, and obviously is being discussed in this forum
yes, in grade school i was taught this too. but now out of school i am free to make my own choices and not sit in the timeout corner
the same could be said about church school. once kids leave the school they decide if they want to continue the teachings or just simply believe in god
Unfortunately, as I stated earlier that's not what's taught in California schools, dating myself I was born in the 70's and to this day in CA schools they teach the following as stated by a previous poster.
-Pledge of Allegiance = place hand over heart and recite pledge while looking toward U.S. flag.
-National Anthem = stand up, look toward flag (if there is one), and either sing or remain silent until song is finished.
It's not disrespectful at all. You don't know if the person is a citizen of the United States or of another country. I'm English, and I can't tell you how many nasty looks I've gotten at sports games when I stand but don't put my hand on my heart. As long as you're standing up and being quiet, I really see no problems.
It's not disrespectful at all. You don't know if the person is a citizen of the United States or of another country. I'm English, and I can't tell you how many nasty looks I've gotten at sports games when I stand but don't put my hand on my heart. As long as you're standing up and being quiet, I really see no problems.
Nor do I. Actually, I find it difficult to believe that people are constantly peering at you during the playing of the anthem. Most folks just look at the flag.
Perhaps you're a flamboyant dresser .... or a nudist?
Disrespectful how? Is it enough reverence to stand quietly and paying attention to the flag, not fidgeting, looking around. What about service men who stand in salute to the flag during the pledge? Are they disrespectful? No. I think not.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with standing facing the flag with your hands neatly folded behind or in front of you.
I couldnt care less find some bit anal over this.
If someone stand's at attention ,hand over heart or refuses to do either I have zero problem with it.
Don't care because i do not do it either, i swear allegiance to no country, that treats me and my people like it does.
I find it no big deal when someone does not swear allegiance .
Just because you show other's how "patriotic , loyal" you are mean's nothing.
It's like wearing a flag pin or Jesus saves bumper sticker.
People enjoy putting on a show and wearing patriotism,Relegion on their sleeve.
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