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That is completely untrue. And who are you to decide who others are?
You don't have to agree, but it's my personal belief. Bisexual people are usually always more attracted to the same sex, and whenever someone calls them out as a homosexual, they always respond,"No, I'm actually bisexual" as if that makes it any better.
I don't believe a person can be bisexual. Your either a homosexual or a heterosexual. I feel people just use the whole "I'm bisexual" thing because they think it's more safe than being a full out homosexual.
I don't agree with the "Homosexual lifestyle", but I don't hate people who are. I just personally don't care about it. It is however very annoying and disgusting when homosexuals try to hit on you as if they expect you to be gay. This I feel is what causes people to become homophobics.
First of all, there is no "homosexual lifestyle" - it's just WHO a person is. It's not something someone just chooses to do - who the hell would choose it, when it's easier to be straight? Like you wake up one day, and say, "gee, just for kicks, I think I'll be gay now". There's no logic in that. Why do you call it a "lifestyle"? A lifestyle is something you choose to do because you like living a certain way, perhaps - living in a certain area, having a certain type of job, having children or not, etc. Do you choose the "heterosexual lifestyle" if you're straight? I don't think so.
I'm bisexual myself - have had relationships with both men and women. I guess it depends on how you define "bisexual". Guess I'm living the "bisexual lifestyle", whatever that is.
First of all, there is no "homosexual lifestyle" - it's just WHO a person is. It's not something someone just chooses to do - who the hell would choose it, when it's easier to be straight? Like you wake up one day, and say, "gee, just for kicks, I think I'll be gay now". There's no logic in that. Why do you call it a "lifestyle"? A lifestyle is something you choose to do because you like living a certain way, perhaps - living in a certain area, having a certain type of job, having children or not, etc. Do you choose the "heterosexual lifestyle" if you're straight? I don't think so.
I'm bisexual myself - have had relationships with both men and women. I guess it depends on how you define "bisexual". Guess I'm living the "bisexual lifestyle", whatever that is.
When did I say you decide to be a homosexual??? Stop trying to look so deep into my statement and just take it for what it is. I don't hate homosexuals; just don't really care about what they do in their lifes.
I hate the use of the word "them" as if homosexuals are just SOOOO different from everyone else.
I apologize if my use of the word "them" is insulting....my only intent was to show differences regarding whom I was speaking of. I know that no matter what, homosexuals are people and just as human as anyone else!
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In any case, I recognize that people can "disagree" or find something wrong with my being a lesbian but I don't think they automatically hate me.
It's good to know that!
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I don't see homosexuality as a lifestyle but whatever.
You're entitled to your opinion.
When did I say you decide to be a homosexual??? Stop trying to look so deep into my statement and just take it for what it is. I don't hate homosexuals; just don't really care about what they do in their lifes.
You said it was a "lifestyle" - that's something one chooses to do. Being straight, gay, or in-between is just who someone IS.
Sorry, I misinterpreted. Maybe you have a different definition of "lifestyle".
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