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Why is this thread turning into a discussion on acceptable levels of PDA? This was a quick kiss and the news show I saw (some local station in SLC) set up cameras and showed footage of plenty of heterosexual couples kissing each other.
The ONLY reason one finds same-sex affection "gross" or uncomfortable is because you've been taught that. In some cultures two men will kiss on the mouth as friends and or family.
Actually, I wasn't taught that kissing another man in a passionate manner was wrong. It is a feeling that comes from the very depths of my being. Just like when you do something you know is wrong and you get that tight feeling in your stomach. That is how I feel when I see two men kissing each other. But, as I said earlier, it is a free country and as long as they(hetero or homo) are not exposing themselves I have nothing to say about it. I will simply keep walking and go on about my business.
But you are wrong about being taught that it's wrong. For those of the heterosexual nature, it simply feels wrong. Just as I am sure to the homosexual person, it feels right. See, by your own reasoning, it would be safe to say homosexual behavior was also taught. If you don't believe this is true, and that homosexuality is natural, then you should easily understand the concept that feelings aren't taught to you, they simply are. Isn't that what the homosexual community has been telling us all along. That this is just who they are, and how they feel. Naturally, the same is true for heterosexual people.
But you are wrong about being taught that it's wrong. For those of the heterosexual nature, it simply feels wrong. Just as I am sure to the homosexual person, it feels right. See, by your own reasoning, it would be safe to say homosexual behavior was also taught. If you don't believe this is true, and that homosexuality is natural, then you should easily understand the concept that feelings aren't taught to you, they simply are. Isn't that what the homosexual community has been telling us all along. That this is just who they are, and how they feel. Naturally, the same is true for heterosexual people.
You can't ignore the cultural component, however. Even though I am definitely gay, it took me awhile to get used to the idea of seeing two guys kiss and to not feel grossed out about it. I still sometimes feel grossed out when I see it. That's how powerful societal and cultural bias can be. Hopefully, you consider yourself fortunate that you've never had to deal with it in this respect.
If you grow up and you're taught that something is very bad or wrong, you have to work very hard to overcome that, even if your own personal feelings are telling you that it's alright. It's one reason why so many gay men and women struggle with coming out of the closet, and even after they come out, it can take years (or even decades) to fully accept themselves for who they are.
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I did not bother reading the link but I think ALL ranchy displays of public affections (PDA's) should be abolished for BOTH homo and hetero sexuals. Let's keep it rated "G" folks.
Abolished?
Someone please remind me again how Americans and Christians are so much more progressive, tolerant and civilized than Islamic/Muslim societies?
Because the Americans I'm seeing, hearing and reading from over the last few years; don't resemble anything even remotely close to what America and Americans are supposed to stand for.
While I'm personally not all that fond of any people going overboard by making out and/or fondling each other in a public setting; I certainly would ever entertain the concept of abolishment.
Some light kissing, that's cool. A little making out, that's okay.
Overboard making out......... tacky and distasteful in most public settings.
Fondling is pretty much always distasteful in most public settings.
And this goes for Hetros and Homosexuals. It's a matter of showing a little class, tact and consideration for the people around you. That's all.
All right so listen up! Ironic how my originall title describing the act,was edited because it was offensive, but most post argue that the act is not! Just sayin. The bottom line is, you have a whole bunch of homo's and hetero sympathizers, purposely taunting and provoking the church with their , digusting behavior,( my opinion) at the risk of ruining his credibility kevk had it exactly right! For the record, I am not big on any pda, I just lined out one of my sons 16 year old classmates for sitting in the grass, sucking face with a girl at a carnival, if it would have been two homos or lesbians in front of my kids, it would have been alot more than a lining out. Keep it in your closet and I will stay out of it. End of story!
I just lined out one of my sons 16 year old classmates for sitting in the grass, sucking face with a girl at a carnival
You scolded one of your son's classmates for kissing a girl? Why?
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Keep it in your closet and I will stay out of it. End of story!
Forget it. I don't agree with causing a disturbance on private property if the owners don't approve of it, but on public property or on the street, you have no right to butt in. No closets for anyone, thank you. If you don't like it, look away.
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