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View Poll Results: Do you have a living will?
Yes. I want to have the final say on the end of my life. 18 72.00%
No. I think that doctors know best when it comes to treatment. 1 4.00%
I will get one when I get older. 4 16.00%
I don't want to think about the end of my life. 2 8.00%
Voters: 25. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-14-2009, 04:48 PM
 
Location: SE Florida
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Do you have a living will? Have you discussed your choices with your family? with your doctor?

Such a fuss was made about this provision in proposed health care legislation. Yet for more than ten years, my family has had this discussion and had living wills. My doctor has me sign a new living will every few years, discussing it with me.

My grandmother had one, my mom has one and I have one. How about you? Do you have one? Why or why not?

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Old 08-14-2009, 04:50 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Yep. Had my first one when I was 19, and one every two years (approx.) after that, and I'm 25 now. I have a genetic disorder that could go 'downhill' fairly quickly so I have to have these provisions just in case.
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Old 08-14-2009, 04:52 PM
 
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We have the full set of documents, medical, financial, the works. Also have Long Term Care Insurance for skilled nursing home care.
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Old 08-14-2009, 04:52 PM
 
Location: San Jose
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Do you have a living will? Have you discussed your choices with your family? with your doctor?

Such a fuss was made about this provision in proposed health care legislation. Yet for more than ten years, my family has had this discussion and had living wills. My doctor has me sign a new living will every few years, discussing it with me.

My grandmother had one, my mom has one and I have one. How about you? Do you have one? Why or why not?

Aging With Dignity Five Wishes
Did it last year. Maybe I waited too long (I'm in my late 50s), but at least I got it done.
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Old 08-14-2009, 04:54 PM
 
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You forgot... "No, I want everything done possibly to prolong my life."... that would be my option...
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Old 08-14-2009, 04:56 PM
 
Location: SE Florida
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You forgot... "No, I want everything done possibly to save my life."... that would be my option...
That was my grandmother's option. And she had it in writing.
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Old 08-14-2009, 04:58 PM
 
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I understand the exorbitant costs of end of life care... I guess people are fine with dying a little "sooner" but if I could live a week or two longer, than I am okay with that... perhaps its because I believe that after death there is nothing after that, so I want to "stay" here as long as possible...
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Old 08-14-2009, 04:59 PM
 
Location: Illinois Delta
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My husband and I both have one. As a former health care worker, I've seen too many bedside tragedies
involving the patient and family. I want to be certain that, if my time comes naturally, my family will not be bankrupted, nor will I be subjected to costly treatments, tests, medicines or surgeries that would only prolong my death. I saw Bernie Sanford (I-Vt) state that 1 million families will go bankrupt due to medical costs this year alone. Fight the insurance lobby!
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Old 08-14-2009, 04:59 PM
 
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How do you fight the insurance lobby? With a bat? I don't get it...
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Old 08-14-2009, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Georgia
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Nope not yet. I do need to get one though. My parents have one I know that.
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